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Disanthrope said:
Wasn't worthy? Dramatic lol

You explain life is not black and white, there is gray area. You explain that a man wants to bond with his OFFSPRING and it is not meant to offend you, you are still loved
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I am dramatic af when it comes to kids especially the ones under my roof.
mryounggun said:
You totally just made that up. No one said that. That’s what you interpreted it as. In your mind, the only reason he’d take one and not the other is because he didn’t feel one was ‘worthy’ enough.
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That is the point of these type of questions to interpret them as you see fit. That's why there's no detailed specifics.
 
If they all live in the same house you take them both. Why wouldn't you? If they live in separate places , I see nothing wrong with spending time alone with your son. We don't even know if the boys get along with each other. The mom can always take her son out to celebrate too.
 
Loquacious said:
Husband wants to take his biological son on a trip to celebrate his 8th grade graduation. His wife’s son is also graduating from 8th grade and his wife is upset her husband won’t include his step son.

Is the husband wrong or is this okay?

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It’s wrong. If he was just a boyfriend no problem. But a husband not doing for your step kid is crazy.
 
For the selfish niggas you don’t sign up to be a step parent and not treat the kids equally. That’s weird as hell. Not to get too deep but y’all can’t champion being selfish and then wondering why niggas don’t work together at the same time.
 
Tayboo said:
Are those words I typed??? This trip specifically is to celebrate a graduation, not a random bonding trip. Why would you want to leave out a child living in your home for the same accomplishment?
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I don’t get it and plus it’s an 8th grade graduation which to me isn’t that serious. But it’s not difficult to bring two boys instead of one.
 
SeaSnake said:
For the selfish niggas you don’t sign up to be a step parent and not treat the kids equally. That’s weird as hell. Not to get too deep but y’all can’t champion being selfish and then wondering why niggas don’t work together at the same time.
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Treated them equally doesn’t have to mean that you take them both on a trip at the same time.

I dunno why people don’t get that.
 
SeaSnake said:
I get that but I think taking in a trip to celebrate the same thing ain’t that difficult.
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It's not. But neither is taking your bio son on a solo trip that y'all be looking forward to and taking your step son on another...or buying him some fly shit he's been wanting...or taking him and his mom on trip to do some fly shit...or taking him and his little buddies out to do whatever the fuck 13 year olds think is cool these days.
 
Nah I can't rock with it. My wife had two kids before we were together. When we got married, those kids became my kids and to this day, remain "my kids"; I've never treated them any different from the two we had together. My stepfather never treated me and my sister any different from the kids he had before he got with my mother or the two he had with her. To this day, at 85 years old, he still views us all as his kids. My father never treated my stepbrother any differently from me and my sister or any different from the two he had with my stepmother.

Ionno, maybe men were just built different back inna day, but with that kind of an example, how would any man look treating his step kids differently from his biological kids he had with his wife?

Bottom line: Me and the boys going on this lil trip, be back Sunday night.
 
I can't side with the HUSBAND on this. When you marry someone with a child it's a package deal. That simple.

This is going to sour their relationship and honesty sounds petty as fuck.
 
I'd have to know what's up w/ the step child's father?? That's the million dollar question.


Convos like these are why single-parents can be deal breakers.
 
Lmao.

I exclude my kids all the time.

Maybe one go, maybe two maybe 3.

I took my two youngest to New Orleans for a trip and left my oldest.

I have taken my middle son to New Orleans and left the other two.

Took my oldest to LA and left the other two.


Bottom line is everybody don’t have to be included.

And a 13 year should understand that.
 
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Dwayne said:
Lmao.

I exclude my kids all the time.

Maybe one go, maybe two maybe 3.

I took my two youngest to New Orleans for a trip and left my oldest.

I have taken my middle son to New Orleans and left the other two.

Took my oldest to LA and left the other two.


Bottom line is everybody don’t have to be included.

And a 13 year should understand that.
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Same. And I suggest that any parent with more than one kid finds time to hang out with each of them individually. You don't have the same relationship with each one of your kids. Each one is different each relationship has to be cultivated differently.

This shit is a joke.

Literally every one in this thread who has an issue with this just made a bunch of assumptions about this scenario.
 
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Dwayne said:
Lmao.

I exclude my kids all the time.

Maybe one go, maybe two maybe 3.

I took my two youngest to New Orleans for a trip and left my oldest.

I have taken my middle son to New Orleans and left the other two.

Took my oldest to LA and left the other two.


Bottom line is everybody don’t have to be included.

And a 13 year should understand that.
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mryounggun said:
Same. And I suggest that any parent with more than one kid finds time to hang out with each of them individually. You don't have the same relationship with each one of your kids. Each one is different each relationship has to be cultivated differently.

This shit is a joke.

Literally every one in this thread who has an issue with this just made a bunch of assumptions about this scenario.
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Woah this is crazy talk 😱
 
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