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So you can never have any type of alone time with your seed once you get with someone that got kids too?!?The husband is wrong. If you're not able or willing to treat a child as your own, don't marry a single parent...
Gat damn lol
So you can never have any type of alone time with your seed once you get with someone that got kids too?!?The husband is wrong. If you're not able or willing to treat a child as your own, don't marry a single parent...
Mann that's what I thought but apparently not lol.Not every single thing needs to be even with kids and stepkids. As long as things are reasonably equitable, that’s what matters.
THANK YOUIf I marry a woman with kids, they are now a part of my life and will be treated as my own.
If I want to bond with my biological child, I would do it on a day/s where a special moment is not shared with the other kids. Do it on a regular day.
Are those words I typed??? This trip specifically is to celebrate a graduation, not a random bonding trip. Why would you want to leave out a child living in your home for the same accomplishment?So you can never have any type of alone time with your seed once you get with someone that got kids too?!?
Gat damn lol
Is the step incapable of understanding things? If you're so worried about hurting his feelings why not just explain things thoroughly?Are those words I typed??? This trip specifically is to celebrate a graduation, not a random bonding trip. Why would you want to leave out a child living in your home for the same accomplishment?
I thought the concept of father-son bonding was simpleSo you can never have any type of alone time with your seed once you get with someone that got kids too?!?
Gat damn lol
Not enough info.Im confused. Are they all under the same roof or does the biological son live with his mom? That would change my answer.
How would you tell a child that their step father didn't feel that his/hers graduation wasn't a worthy enough accomplishment to take the trip?Is the step incapable of understanding things? If you're so worried about hurting his feelings why not just explain things thoroughly?
Hot take: All parents should do shit with their kids individually sometimes. You don’t always have to do everything as a family. Each relationship is different. And each needs to be cultivated differently.Mann that's what I thought but apparently not lol.
How dare a nigga try to do anything with his kid alone..
Pass on all of this
Wasn't worthy? Dramatic lolHow would you tell a child that their step father didn't feel that his/hers graduation wasn't a worthy enough accomplishment to take the trip?
How would you tell a child that their step father didn't feel that his/hers graduation wasn't a worthy enough accomplishment to take the trip?
Lol one would hope that convo is before the marriage and kidsYou could also plan something with both, then on another day, plan something with just your child. Not that complicated. Everything needs balance. There would be an issue if I could never have alone time with my son in our marriage but that convo would happen before we got married.
Lots of people dont know how to communicate well.Lol one would hope that convo is before the marriage and kids