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And she would have got it worse
Just a question btw. Let me say that before some of these cats on here start ego-tripping.

So it's better she doesn't fight back physically? Just trying to see where ya'll head is on the "fight back" option. Yea it could get worse, but not necessarily. I know more than a few times IRL where a woman fought back and the guy came out on the losing end.
 
Just a question btw. Let me say that before some of these cats on here start ego-tripping.

So it's better she doesn't fight back physically? Just trying to see where ya'll head is on the "fight back" option. Yea it could get worse, but not necessarily. I know more than a few times IRL where a woman fought back and the guy came out on the losing end.
In Cassie's situation where she's barely 100 lbs her not fighting back was the correct call, what damage is she doing to him
 
Just a question btw. Let me say that before some of these cats on here start ego-tripping.

So it's better she doesn't fight back physically? Just trying to see where ya'll head is on the "fight back" option. Yea it could get worse, but not necessarily. I know more than a few times IRL where a woman fought back and the guy came out on the losing end.

My guy it’s more than likely she’s tried this before & paid for it. Even if she never did the fuck does it matter? Diddy vs her is like Tyson Fury vs a featherweight 9 times outta 10 the outcome ain’t good. Quit the victim blaming.

The woman’s lucky she made it out.
 
Touche

I'm no way excusing him for his ignorance

I wanna make that clear

He's the epitome of a nigga that needs for all the facts to come out before giving an opinion because his clear he can't be objective when it comes to issues of domestic abuse

He always seems to think by default the woman is lying and trying to come up

When it comes to the abuse of woman and children....

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Just a question btw. Let me say that before some of these cats on here start ego-tripping.

So it's better she doesn't fight back physically? Just trying to see where ya'll head is on the "fight back" option. Yea it could get worse, but not necessarily. I know more than a few times IRL where a woman fought back and the guy came out on the losing end.

Lmao. You obviously don't have hands or common sense.

And mfs act like puff is a little nigga. He got size and length to do damage. PAUSE.
 
For y'all saying why she stayed or to that effect didn't she leave him and he broke into her crib and assaulted her.
 
When it comes to the abuse of woman and children....

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Ehh. Cuts both ways. It's fine to be empathetic or want to wait until there is hard evidence and facts provided. Problem is people pick a side and can't be objective which leads to people being subjective and just saying anything on the internet.

Mfs just need to be more accountable for the shit they say.

It's people that will get upset at folks for side eying a story or questioning the victim then find out that person isn't a victim and on some bullshit they get low or have the nerve to come back in thread like "oh well'. Same thing happens when it's the other way around.

Be accountable for the things you say online.
 
Lol, now you concerned about Yung Mami and Kim Porter and compliance over a damn message board full of old niggas.

Celebrity is a dangerous drug lol.

See this is the shit I am talking about lol.
I'm concerned about young girls everywhere watching this stuff, hearing comments like this that incentivizes this behavior, and follows in their footsteps. We just got off calling Drake a pedo. Millie Bobby Brown and Billie Eillish were in junior high when this was happening, and we were sweeping shit under the rug then. Imagine if a tape came out of someone their age getting the brakes beat off of them. We joked about Raz B in the 2000s... over 15 years later we're questioning the validity of Lil Rod's testimony. I'm not even gonna speak on Afrika Bambatta... Hassan Campbell moves like a rape victim, I don't need a videotape to know something happened to him. This should have been a non issue after Ike Turner. I'm not a woman, I'm not gonna speak on solutions for women on this issue. But as men, when are we gonna hold ourselves accountable for validating that system of abuse with indifference and apathy? How are we gonna teach young boys to not be the next Drake when we can't even properly place accountability on the niggas that groomed him? This ain't about celebrities, fuck celebrities. This is about the responsibility we abandoned a long time ago because we were able to get away with it.
 
Yeah now he backtracking and apologizing


Stupid comment with stupid connections my guy

You can’t compare the music industry to the military

In the military you KNOW what the chances are….in the entertainment business…you DONT know. Especially to the magnitude we’re talking…these are snakes hiding behind a smile

Why do you think so many young, impressionable kids/teens end up on drugs/suicidal when they decided to act for Disney, or become a singer, only to find out their “manager” has been grooming them for perverse acts and damn near prostitution? Or to bind them in contracts they had no full awareness of due to youthful ignorance or lack of guidance?

The reason why people stay isn’t just because they want “luxury”, it’s because they are convinced that this is the lifestyle they have to put up with to survive.

Some find a way out….some don’t


I apologize for absolutely nothing lol.

Y'all just be in your feelings about celebrities and I don't. Y'all wince and tense at the sight of someone suffering and I don't. Y'all think about morality in a binary of right and wrong and I obviously don't.

I clearly said Diddy did everything she said he did and she deserves her severance package since he never made an honest woman out of the girl and ruined her career. I am not gonna sit here and be like, "Oh my god, poor Cassie." . I don't give a fuck about Cassie or Diddy. They are just a useful example systematic.

What you mean in the military you know what the chances are?

There's plenty of people that joined the military and never been into a war zone and never seen someone die. Had a great time.

Just like there's plenty of people in the entertainment industry that never been abused and never been put pressured. Had a great time.

But I am sure everyone knows that amongst the military there are people that commit war crimes and abuses just like in the entertainment industry it's full of glorified prostitutes and studio pimps. The casting couch been real since the beginning of the studio systems in the 50s.

People still fucking join the military industrial complex and the entertainment industry. The upside seems more likely than the downside, the downside catastrophic and the upside is life changing.

People like to believe that people are more ignorant and gullible than they actually because they like to think that people make choices in accordance of a moral code or philosophy instead of short-sighted self-interest and convenient moral blindness.

It's the mindset that knowledge and awareness cures social ills and people just don't know anybody.

The truth is people are over-confident in that it won't happen them. And if it does happen to them they can handle it. And if they can't handle it, the ends justify the means, so let's roll dice.

Hence women still wanna be Marylin Monroe. Hence men still wanna be Michael Jackson. The wheels turn and turn while people dump out their sympathy to people that are complicit in their own exploitation.

Your sympathy and attention for these people turn the wheel, if nobody gave a fuck about these celebrities and their sob stories, they wouldn't do half the shit. These people want you to feel bad for them when the shit goes bad.

Motherfuckers acting like Cassie is a woman with a mortgages and kids with a fucked up husband when that wasn't the case. No different than people acting like Michael Jackson was one of the kids of the 1930's working in the factory when they say he had no childhood.

Y'all equate celebrity sob stories to everyday life and the constraints that comes with it and it's not.
 
Ehh. Cuts both ways. It's fine to be empathetic or want to wait until there is hard evidence and facts provided. Problem is people pick a side and can't be objective which leads to people being subjective and just saying anything on the internet.

Mfs just need to be more accountable for the shit they say.

It's people that will get upset at folks for side eying a story or questioning the victim then find out that person isn't a victim and on some bullshit they get low or have the nerve to come back in thread like "oh well'. Same thing happens when it's the other way around.

Be accountable for the things you say online.
I don't mind being wrong about a victim, I can't do shit for em anyway. But I personally witnessed and experienced enough abuse to discern who to place accountability on. Some niggas wanna argue just to argue. I just wanna make sure the MeToo Movement isn't for nothing, because abuse on a grand scale is still a huge problem.
 
Ehh. Cuts both ways. It's fine to be empathetic or want to wait until there is hard evidence and facts provided. Problem is people pick a side and can't be objective which leads to people being subjective and just saying anything on the internet.

Mfs just need to be more accountable for the shit they say.

It's people that will get upset at folks for side eying a story or questioning the victim then find out that person isn't a victim and on some bullshit they get low or have the nerve to come back in thread like "oh well'. Same thing happens when it's the other way around.

Be accountable for the things you say online.

or like you be saying.. Its free to shut the fuck up and not say anything sometimes
 
I'm concerned about young girls everywhere watching this stuff, hearing comments like this that incentivizes this behavior, and follows in their footsteps. We just got off calling Drake a pedo. Millie Bobby Brown and Billie Eillish were in junior high when this was happening, and we were sweeping shit under the rug then. Imagine if a tape came out of someone their age getting the brakes beat off of them. We joked about Raz B in the 2000s... over 15 years later we're questioning the validity of Lil Rod's testimony. I'm not even gonna speak on Afrika Bambatta... Hassan Campbell moves like a rape victim, I don't need a videotape to know something happened to him. This should have been a non issue after Ike Turner. I'm not a woman, I'm not gonna speak on solutions for women on this issue. But as men, when are we gonna hold ourselves accountable for validating that system of abuse with indifference and apathy? How are we gonna teach young boys to not be the next Drake when we can't even properly place accountability on the niggas that groomed him? This ain't about celebrities, fuck celebrities. This is about the responsibility we abandoned a long time ago because we were able to get away with it.

Have you ever considered your sympathy for this shit influences people to join?

If people are unable to discern when they are exploiting themselves and putting themselves at the mercy of a system and they have examples of people being rewarded for their gullibility with sympathy and attention, then they are just going to keep doing it.

They take your sympathy and attention and turn it into clicks, views, thinkpieces and money.

There ain't that many people in the entertainment industry.

Give your sympathy and attention and time to regular everyday people that struggle with everyday life.

Black folks waste too much of their goodwill towards celebrity news and gossip.

You want your young Black girls and boys to avoid being a Drake or a Cassie, teach them to hate celebrities.
 
I'm concerned about young girls everywhere watching this stuff, hearing comments like this that incentivizes this behavior, and follows in their footsteps. We just got off calling Drake a pedo. Millie Bobby Brown and Billie Eillish were in junior high when this was happening, and we were sweeping shit under the rug then. Imagine if a tape came out of someone their age getting the brakes beat off of them. We joked about Raz B in the 2000s... over 15 years later we're questioning the validity of Lil Rod's testimony. I'm not even gonna speak on Afrika Bambatta... Hassan Campbell moves like a rape victim, I don't need a videotape to know something happened to him. This should have been a non issue after Ike Turner. I'm not a woman, I'm not gonna speak on solutions for women on this issue. But as men, when are we gonna hold ourselves accountable for validating that system of abuse with indifference and apathy? How are we gonna teach young boys to not be the next Drake when we can't even properly place accountability on the niggas that groomed him? This ain't about celebrities, fuck celebrities. This is about the responsibility we abandoned a long time ago because we were able to get away with it.

See this is the bullshit. You're chasing dude around the thread for victim blaming and not being accountable for what he's saying online and in the same breath you're spreading hearsay and speaking on rumors as if their facts about other men on the internet.

Just saying anything. Both of you need to pack it up.
 
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