obnoxiouslyfresh
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Well sex is clouding. If you eliminate sex while getting to know someone, then you can have better insight into if you even like them or not.
Why Women Make Good Guys Wait and Other Guys Hit Quick
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Well sex is clouding. If you eliminate sex while getting to know someone, then you can have better insight into if you even like them or not.
obnoxiouslyfresh
Active Member
I'm glad you brought up ego. I took great care not to.
All this young lady did was share her method, and right, wrong or indifferent, that's her choice. I don't understand the visceral reaction men have to a woman's choice, whatever it may be.
ImaInfluenza
Who do you think you are? I am
I always assumed we fucking within a couple weeks, after that , im fucking something else until you come to your senses.
One of us is waiting for sex and it ain’t me
One of us is waiting for sex and it ain’t me
Because the choices often lead to contradictions
You want whatever aura the bad boy presents but you don't want the actual shit that tends to come with that
obnoxiouslyfresh
Active Member
That's not really what she said though. She's saying that she sees something more serious with the good guy and she handles him differently. Big deal.
How is that any different than the aura of the women that are bad girl/instagram models vs what men want with long term partners? Everyone does that. You may want something different for the short term than the long term.
ImaInfluenza
Who do you think you are? I am
Shitty men don’t hold women accountable, some…women don’t want to be held accountable and they lowkey feel like they’re better than the shitty guy. So if he hurts them, they’ll be hurt but he’s not better than them.
As opposed to a good guy holding them accountable and hurting them, when someone better than you hurts you. That’s a fate worst than death sometimes. Thats when you see people totally crash out, kill the partner and the kids.
As opposed to a good guy holding them accountable and hurting them, when someone better than you hurts you. That’s a fate worst than death sometimes. Thats when you see people totally crash out, kill the partner and the kids.
ImaInfluenza
Who do you think you are? I am
lol..chase you down while you drunk on sleep meds in ya whip and buss ya windows out when you crash with a golf club
Or
lol..tell cops you assaulted them and ruin ya career
Or
lol..tell cops you assaulted them and ruin ya career
MzLyricist
How much better is it to get wisdom than gold!
any man I'm dating gonna have to wait till marriage so I can't resonate with this here woman lol
TTBF
Get well soon 🦉🇨🇦
You niggas didn't know this? I've written off every single female I've fucked on the quicks cause I assumed thats regular behavior. She's very valid in what she's saying. That's not bird behavior that's 2024 in my 20s-30s human behavior.
TTBF
Get well soon 🦉🇨🇦
Mans said good niggas ugly.
Bow to Royalty
Just facts
This can work if none of the men know each other. She can front for the good guy. But if a dude knows you're giving it up easy, why would he be motivated to put in extra effort for it?
Bow to Royalty
Just facts
I think it's different because (generally speaking) men want sex... it's a high priority to us. She's giving the guy she less interested in that reward more easily. I don't think men are quick to give instagram girls things, but make the women they're legitimately interested in wait for them.
I don't hear men say they'll give time, money, attention, affection, etc to hoes, but make wifey wait.
The confusing part to men is, why you mad at dog behavior, when you reward the dogs?
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TTBF
Get well soon 🦉🇨🇦
I think you're putting too much on what you perceive women to want. Sometimes shorty just want to get stretched.
Maybe that's what they equate the dog to doing well.
Bow to Royalty
Just facts
I think you're putting too much on what you perceive women to want. Sometimes shorty just want to get stretched.
Maybe that's what they equate the dog to doing well.
And that's fine. You just can't look up later saying men ain't shit because you were spending time rewarding undesirable traits in men, while making yourself less appealing to the men you want.
Women can fuck who they want, when they want... but there are consequences.
TTBF
Get well soon 🦉🇨🇦
This logic is why plenty of good niggas struggle imo. I'm not sure it's realistic in todays world.
Nah I'm saying ugly niggas think being 'good' is why they not getting any buns
Bow to Royalty
Just facts
This logic is why plenty of good niggas struggle imo. I'm not sure it's realistic in todays world.
Shit, best advice is find you one while you're young, or find one who went through their hoe phase in a different area and let ignorance be bliss.
TTBF
Get well soon 🦉🇨🇦
Also this logic.
Tayboo
There she go🥰
Homegirl's logic may actually be backed by science...
A woman may bond more closely to a man after sex in the early dating stages, but the man won’t necessarily reciprocate those feelings right away. Here’s why:
It’s believed that the Coolidge effect can sometimes come into play when sex happens quickly.
The Coolidge effect is a biological phenomenon observed in animals whereby males progressively lose interest in mating with the same female yet have heightened sexual interest in new females.
Maslar explains that when a man first starts dating, they’re very excited, and their dopamine and vasopressin go up. But if they satiated sexually too quickly, they drop back down. Therefore, a man may lose interest, pursue other women, and not be around long enough to fall in love.
However, it’s also important to note that this isn’t always the case, and men can still fall in love with women they have sex with early in the relationship. Still, couples need to be careful not to confuse the exhilarating feeling of lust for love to avoid trouble later down the road.
The study also showed that marriage isn’t a defining factor, as both married and unmarried men can be in committed relationships and experience lower testosterone.
When a man’s testosterone drops after committing to someone, it doesn’t mean they will experience diminished sex drive. But they should lose interest in pursuing sex from other women.
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Does sex make men fall in love?
A common misconception is that men fall in love in the bedroom, but Maslar believes that some men may lose interest if sex happens too quickly.A woman may bond more closely to a man after sex in the early dating stages, but the man won’t necessarily reciprocate those feelings right away. Here’s why:
- A man’s dopamine and vasopressin increase when they’re dating a woman, enjoying it, and is sexually interested in them. But their vasopressin drops when they have sex with a woman.
- A woman’s dopamine and oxytocin will also gradually increase if they’re enjoying dating a man and are sexually interested in them. However, the difference is that women’s oxytocin rises considerably when they orgasm.
The Coolidge effect
It’s believed that the Coolidge effect can sometimes come into play when sex happens quickly.
The Coolidge effect is a biological phenomenon observed in animals whereby males progressively lose interest in mating with the same female yet have heightened sexual interest in new females.
Maslar explains that when a man first starts dating, they’re very excited, and their dopamine and vasopressin go up. But if they satiated sexually too quickly, they drop back down. Therefore, a man may lose interest, pursue other women, and not be around long enough to fall in love.
However, it’s also important to note that this isn’t always the case, and men can still fall in love with women they have sex with early in the relationship. Still, couples need to be careful not to confuse the exhilarating feeling of lust for love to avoid trouble later down the road.
Why commitment could be the key to love for men
Studies show that men in committed romantic relationships have 21% lower testosterone than men who are not. That means when a man commits, their testosterone will no longer be blocking the bonding hormone oxytocin, helping them fall in love and develop a long-term bond.The study also showed that marriage isn’t a defining factor, as both married and unmarried men can be in committed relationships and experience lower testosterone.
When a man’s testosterone drops after committing to someone, it doesn’t mean they will experience diminished sex drive. But they should lose interest in pursuing sex from other women.
How Do Men Fall in Love? Effects on the Brain Revealed
Are you wondering how men fall in love? We dive into the biological and psychological triggers that make a man's brain fall deeply in love.
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