Deal breaker or nah

[Lea]

I was listening to a radio show last week and there was a segment with a husband and wife discussing an issue. While they were dating, the lady made it clear that giving head was something she was reserving for her husband (which I totally understand). The issue is, they’re married and she still won’t do it. She thinks it’s nasty. There was a therapist on the call who tried to get to the root of the wife’s feelings on the matter but the wife insisted there was no issue it’s just nasty. The frustrated husband says she is perfect in every way and the sex they have is passionate and amazing he just also wants head from his wife.

Question: You have the perfect mate your ideal partner. He/she checks ALL your boxes, but one. No head. Realistically, in a marriage for you, is this a deal breaker? Why or why not?

 

[NeighborhoodNomad]

Deal breaker because that would make things one sided. In old age this might be less important but as a young man it's important and no head in a relationship is a deal breaker for me.

 

[Rubato]

He relied upon her false promise in deciding to marry her. If that’s a deal breaker for him then it’s completely fair.

 

[AP2.5]

Yep, feels like he married under false pretenses

 

[GNS]

While they were dating, the lady made it clear that giving head was something she was reserving for her husband (which I totally understand). The issue is, they’re married and she still won’t do it.

Bitch is a liar
Wtf else is she lying about
What stone is as yet uncovered that when removed will have an ecosystem of germs and skeletons?
How I grew up receiving or giving head isn't a necessity in a relationship but muhfuckin honesty sure is..

Yes grounds for a divorce

Caso Cerrado
Puta madre

 

[ChicagoFigure]

Depends, she cool w lettin him get head from other women?

 

[Goldie]

the lady made it clear that giving head was something she was reserving for her husband (which I totally understand).

@Mr Litty

 

[Rubato]

Bitch is a liar
Wtf else is she lying about
What stone is as yet uncovered that when removed will have an ecosystem of germs and skeletons?
How I grew up receiving or giving head isn't a necessity in a relationship but muhfuckin honesty sure is..

Yes grounds for a divorce

Caso Cerrado
Puta madre

Yup

 

[Chicity]

@Mr Litty

 

[Remy_LeGermz]

She do anal?

 

[Chicity]

Man in OP lost when he thought she was gonna all of a sudden start sucking dick after saying I do

Either she with it or she not. A dick sucker gonna suck some dick. Not every dick but definitely a dick she intend on marrying

He knew what he signed up for, he playing dumb now

 

[Chicity]

And to answer the question, deal breaker

 

[B_A]

Lol, you're gonna divorce me cuz I won't suck your dick even tho everythin else is bomb? Pffft BYE.

 

[Chicity]

Lol, you're gonna divorce me cuz I won't suck your dick even tho everythin else is bomb? Pffft BYE.

You would have never got a ring if we keeping it real

 

[B_A]

You would have never got a ring if we keeping it real

Cuz I hypothetically dont suck dick or in general?

 

[Loquacious]

If the oral sex box ain’t checked, you ain’t the one for me. I wouldn’t be in this predicament.

THROW THE WIFE AWAY!!

 

[Chicity]

Cuz I hypothetically dont suck dick or in general?

Both

But I'd rather stay on topic of OP because you cool peeps

 

[Mister B.]

SO glad my wife gives up the throat. You hypothetical negroes are on your own.

 

[GNS]

SO glad my wife gives up the throat. You hypothetical negroes are on your own.

Forreal.
I appreciate her too

 

[Shotta]

it is a DEAL BREAKER!!! S he can't be the perfect mate if she not pleasing your desires. The sad part is that dude probably goes down on her. I had a chick like this in the past, so now I'm upfront with women before starting something serious. I usually let em know from the beginning that I love head and that I'm not going to put up with any disrespect.