Miss Fine Wine herself Nia Long is back on the market after ditching that clown Ime Udoka

konceptjones said:
Bruh... Got a family member that got embarrassed by taking pics with his mother's pistol and talking shit, forgetting that she was his friend on FB like she wasn't gonna see that shit. Nigga was damned near 40 at the time and everybody knew he wasn't cut like that. His mother clowned him HARD, his older sister jumped in it too 'cause between the siblings she was the only one that was actually about that life and very, very well known to pack heat (not counting their little sister that became a cop).
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I know a dude who be posting pics of himself all cut up in the gym like he a beast, and EVERYBODY in his family knows about his lanky ass son beating him up last summer. Like bruh, those weights can't make you fight better..... Needa find a boxing class or something
 
The Lonious Monk said:
That's way stupider IMO. At least sex does have a biological urge behind it. There's nothing pushing a dude thuggery in middle-aged years.
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But I think both are based in ego. Women feel pressure to downplay their sexuality and sex drives because of the court of public opinion.. And some just get to the point where they're like fuck it.... And just go hard.... Literally

Like why am I depriving myself from pleasure because I don't wanna be talked about
 
Duwop said:
But I think both are based in ego. Women feel pressure to downplay their sexuality and sex drives because of the court of public opinion.. And some just get to the point where they're like fuck it.... And just go hard.... Literally

Like why am I depriving myself from pleasure because I don't wanna be talked about
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"Talked about by niggas who never have a chance"...
 
BlackRain said:
His son beat him up? So his son the Dad now right?
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Man it was a whole mess. Dude ended up getting divorced, moved out. Now he posting pics like he's that nigga...I mean no hate, cuz I wish him the best and hope he finds happiness. But it's just something funny about seeing a dude damn near 50 posting 20 gym pics a day flexing super hard knowing he got absolutely no squabble.
 
Duwop said:
Man it was a whole mess. Dude ended up getting divorced, moved out. Now he posting pics like he's that nigga...I mean no hate, cuz I wish him the best and hope he finds happiness. But it's just something funny about seeing a dude damn near 50 posting 20 gym pics a day flexing super hard knowing he got absolutely no squabble.
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Black_Samson said:
so which one of your aunt keeps bringing someone new to the family gatherings?

You know what? Nevermind, it ain’t my business, just like it ain’t yours.
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The interviewer put it out there, and she said she needed something like that but then went on to express openness to having one night stands if the other parties could keep their mouths closed.

Whether she actually wants to be out there or not is irrelevant. She said she was open to the idea of entering that type of lifestyle, and I posted a comment laughing at the idea of it. Ya'll are making it deeper than it is. I don't care whether she whores out or not. It doesn't affect me one way or the other, just like it doesn't affect you. Every throwaway comment doesn't need a white knight response. These chicks don't even know you exist. It ain't that serious, bro.
 
Duwop said:
But I think both are based in ego. Women feel pressure to downplay their sexuality and sex drives because of the court of public opinion.. And some just get to the point where they're like fuck it.... And just go hard.... Literally

Like why am I depriving myself from pleasure because I don't wanna be talked about
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I hear you. There are valid reasons for not whoring out that have nothing to do with public opinion, but whatever. People gonna do what they wanna do. Damn the consequences.
 
The Lonious Monk said:
The interviewer put it out there, and she said she needed something like that but then went on to express openness to having one night stands if the other parties could keep their mouths closed.

Whether she actually wants to be out there or not is irrelevant. She said she was open to the idea of entering that type of lifestyle, and I posted a comment laughing at the idea of it. Ya'll are making it deeper than it is. I don't care whether she whores out or not. It doesn't affect me one way or the other, just like it doesn't affect you. Every throwaway comment doesn't need a white knight response. These chicks don't even know you exist. It ain't that serious, bro.
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What was white knight status about the response? Maybe yours about them wanting to be ran through was the one not needed based on the responses you got lol
 
I forgot what thread, and what poster said it, but I think someone was making the argument yesterday that niggas should just pay for pussy instead of trying to keep up with these young chicks.... I'm pretty sure it was the passport bros thread.
And I 100% agree.

Dudes let their egos get in the way of lotta shit... If you just tryna smash something...stop worrying about the optics and take the most efficient route. And like Nia is saying if it's really that bad.. Just keep your mouth shut. Everybody don't HAVE to know how you moving.

It's prolly single dudes out there with a $500-1000 a month sex worker budget that nobody will ever know about it he doesn't tell them.

Mean while it's another dude spending more than that tryna keep up with some young chicks but gotta post everything online so everybody knows he can pull bad younger chicks. Then be projecting all kinds of negative shit about women in the process.

I mean, I'm mostly generalizing.... But we've all seen the behavior I'm talking about displayed
 
Duwop said:
I forgot what thread, and what poster said it, but I think someone was making the argument yesterday that niggas should just pay for pussy instead of trying to keep up with these young chicks.... I'm pretty sure it was the passport bros thread.
And I 100% agree.

Dudes let their egos get in the way of lotta shit... If you just tryna smash something...stop worrying about the optics and take the most efficient route. And like Nia is saying if it's really that bad.. Just keep your mouth shut. Everybody don't HAVE to know how you moving.

It's prolly single dudes out there with a $500-1000 a month sex worker budget that nobody will ever know about it he doesn't tell them.

Mean while it's another dude spending more than that tryna keep up with some young chicks but gotta post everything online so everybody knows he can pull bad younger chicks. Then be projecting all kinds of negative shit about women in the process.

I mean, I'm mostly generalizing.... But we've all seen the behavior I'm talking about displayed
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There's nothing wrong with paying if that's your bag. Only issue though is I'm assuming at a certain point if your interactions with the opposite sex are all transactional then that's all you're going to view them as. And that can lead to some weird shit
 
BlackRain said:
There's nothing wrong with paying if that's your bag. Only issue though is I'm assuming at a certain point if your interactions with the opposite sex are all transactional then that's all you're going to view them as. And that can lead to some weird shit
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No weirder than the shit we see online from the people out here dating daily.
 
BlackRain said:
What was white knight status about the response? Maybe yours about them wanting to be ran through was the one not needed based on the responses you got lol
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Two people made opposing responses, you, a person that always feels the need to respond, being one of them.

And nothing on this forum is needed. We're all just riffing about bullshit. If she can get on a public forum and express tacit interest in being in a situationship or one-night stand, I should be able laugh about her expressing such a sentiment at her age. Or are only positive Ra Ra responses allowed?
 
The Lonious Monk said:
Two people made opposing responses, you, a person that always feels the need to respond, being one of them.

And nothing on this forum is needed. We're all just riffing about bullshit. If she can get on a public forum and express tacit interest in being in a situationship or one-night stand, I should be able laugh about her expressing such a sentiment at her age. Or are only positive Ra Ra responses allowed?
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Saying somebody wants to be ran through is a specific thing and not the same as a one night stand or situationship. You took a huge leap with that. So if we all just riffing...then that can also be commented on.
 
BlackRain said:
Saying somebody wants to be ran through is a specific thing and not the same as a one night stand or situationship. You took a huge leap with that. So if we all just riffing...then that can also be commented on.
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It's not a big jump. The situationship/one-night stand lifestyle that people are living now is how they rack up bodies. You're acting like we're talking about old school friends with benefits where people vetted someone and then engaged for sometimes years. In this conversation, they are pretty explicitly talking about meaningless and temporary sexually driven connections. You can be ok with that lifestyle and support her for being down with it without ignoring the reality of how that lifestyle typically plays out.
 
Yeah, if you out here living the hook up lifestyle of one night stands, situationships, casual sex....

People who know will call you ran thru. But imo it's really not that big of a deal as long as you're safe with it.. But I completely understand preferring those partners to be low key about it. Cuz the ridicule will always be strong.. Especially for women.
 
The Lonious Monk said:
It's not a big jump. The situationship/one-night stand lifestyle that people are living now is how they rack up bodies. You're acting like we're talking about old school friends with benefits where people vetted someone and then engaged for sometimes years. In this conversation, they are pretty explicitly talking about meaningless and temporary sexually driven connections. You can be ok with that lifestyle and support her for being down with it without ignoring the reality of how that lifestyle typically plays out.
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Im seeing a 55 year old woman talk about this. The chances she about to be out here on some running through niggas is highly unlikely. Especially given her own words about not wanting to risk running into somebody who gonna put her out there and expressed dislike in how the dating scene already is for somebody her age getting back into it. So at 55 that typically don't really apply. 20-30 years younger ok...in this instance though it's doubtful she about to get "ran through".
 
BlackRain said:
Im seeing a 55 year old woman talk about this. The chances she about to be out here on some running through niggas is highly unlikely. Especially given her own words about not wanting to risk running into somebody who gonna put her out there and expressed dislike in how the dating scene already is for somebody her age getting back into it. So at 55 that typically don't really apply. 20-30 years younger ok...in this instance though it's doubtful she about to get "ran through".
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I stopped giving people of any age that kinda benefit of the doubt a long time ago, but you do you.
 
I highly doubt she's about to be a celebrity pass around....

But I do think niggas who frequent high level social scenes and understandably go in with the "let me keep my mouth shut" mentality bout to come up ..

City boys definitely up this summer.

I'm bout to go start a beef with my wife right now...😭
 
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