Do you judge EVERYONE by the company they keep? 🤔

[AP4.0]

I'm sure we all know someone that we're cool with that's cool with other people that you might not think are cool.

Do you judge your friends for their friends outside of y'all's friend group?

What about your S/O?

 

[AP4.0]

You don't have to answer the second part CTB

 

[Freeman]

I typically don't pay it any mind unless I have a personal issue with that person/group or I know them to be doing fuckshit.

 

[The question]

No, I wasn’t like the people I hung out with.

 

[Duwop]

Yeah it's more intricate than that... Cuz people can have really random ass reasons why they cool outside of shared activities... So you can run into a lotta situations where it doesn't line up.

 

[RandomOne]

Human nature to

 

[Lou Cypher]

To an extent I do. If they hang around with some fuck arounds, I imagine they're a fuck around at least a little bit. Or at the very least they've just known the fuck arounds since they were young

 

[#1hiphopjunki3]

Lots of variables to consider with this question, but two big ones that are very prevalent was stated by @Duwop and @Lou Cypher .

I most definitely am more (I'm pretty cautious as is) cautious if a person is hanging around with sketchy individuals, but I don't totally judge or discount them because of that. I know how it feels to be in that situation with some of the folks I know and be with on a regular basis, so I try to give some grace, but I'm more alert and less open until they've proven to be more trust worthy over time

 

[Dwayne]

Absolutely.

100%

Every time.

 

[Roscoe G]

I got set up by a friend so I have no room to judge tbh

 

[Duwop]

I'm glad my wife didn't judge me by the people she met me around.

 

[BlackRain]

Yeah because the company you choose to keep says alot about you.

 

[The Lonious Monk]

It makes me raise my eyebrow, but I know that people select the people they hang around for a variety of reasons.

 

[Tessai]

Yeah depending because they could be on some fuck shit too that you just haven’t witnessed yet.

 

[Dwayne]

“Association brings about simulation”

Z-Ro

 

[Duwop]

So none of y'all ever hung around a crowd that did shit that you didn't do?

 

[GNS]

I don't judge but because of their proximity to them other people I just wouldn't say or do certain shit around them that I wouldn't want them other people knowing about.

 

[TonyDubbz]

Nah

I dont be giving af

 

[Dwayne]

So none of y'all ever hung around a crowd that did shit that you didn't do?

Yes

And when you realized they ain’t changing behavior that you would consider trash you remove yourself.

Just like when I wasn’t shit I realized I was a terrible person and changed my behavior/associates/scenery

So people grow and some don’t. Some put up with dumb shit from themselves and others and relish in it and some want better for themselves and the people they around

 

[Duwop]

Yes

And when you realized they ain’t changing behavior that you would consider trash you remove yourself.

Just like when I wasn’t shit I realized I was a terrible person and changed my behavior/associates/scenery

So people grow and some don’t. Some put up with dumb shit from themselves and others and relish in it and some want better for themselves and the people they around

Again, I met my wife when I was hanging with a group that really didn't represent me as an individual. I clearly distanced myself over time as I matured. But at the time I had no significant other or kids to worry about, I was having fun. I'm just glad I wasn't judged by the crowd I was running with.