Fair or foul??: intimidating boys dating your daughter

You upping on your daughter boyfriend?

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Duwop

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Personally, I'm against this behavior. I have both a daughter and a son. And I'm 100% going to have a wild response to someone pulling a weapon or trying to threaten my son with a weapon because YOUR little girl likes him and wants him to meet her parents.

And in turn, if my baby girl met a little boy she wanted and felt comfortable letting her dad meet, the last thing I'm doing is trying to intimidate little homie.. I'm actually on my best behavior and doing my best to not embarrass her


Cuz at the end of the day, your reputation with your children is paramount. Both my kids know exactly who I am as a person, and they both know way better than to bring someone disrespectful or or rude around me. I don't have to project nothing...and I especially don't gotta threaten some little boy.

How insecure of a man you gotta be to hide behind a gun from a kid?

Chances are, if you really about that action your daughter already told him.

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I actually like when all the parents meet so we can discuss boundaries, what we allow, and what we expect from both of them.

My son and his girlfriend actually been together over a year.... But we literally gotta group chat better us and her parents. We just stay on top of them, and communicate openly to each other.

It's actually a very chill situation.
 
Elzo69Renaissance said:
Me and my immediate family only got boys so thinking bout pressing some 15 year old picking up my daughter for a date isn’t something I’d ever think about
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How would you feel if one of your boys says his shorty father pulled out his weapon on him when he was just trying to pick up girl and politely introduce himself

Like he telling you he was being mad respectful to her pops, and this nigga ass acting like he was looking for a reason to pop him.

Like it's one thing when a teacher don't like you, but your girls pops pulling guns is a whole different thing.
 
I think I might do it but don’t know. I also don’t know any families that did do it and it “worked”

I’ve heard of people joking around but not sure if it actually happened
 
When my oldest started dating her senior year of high school, I had a talk with the cats taking her out. After getting to know what they're about, I hit 'em with this:

"This is my little princess. You're gonna respect my daughter, and you'll have her home by 11pm."

Maybe it was my tone, maybe it was the fact that she had a father in the home, dunno... But not one of them ever brought her back after 11pm, not even a few minutes late.
 
Haven't gotten to this point, but I don't see myself doing nothing stupid. My focus is getting my daughters to make good decisions on who they choose to date and what they are willing to do. If I'm successful at that, then I shouldn't have to try to intimidate the boys.
 
I think my kids have good judgement of character. And I plan to be welcoming and courteous, and as nice as I can be. I'm going to treat that young man like he's our future, and trust that my daughter picked a good one to bring home to meet her parents.

Now if he proves to be a little wild ass nigga with no manners..... I'm definitely going to make sure he sees the other side of that coin... But imma definitely be cool on the default.
 
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