Agreed, and I do believe it is legit coercion when a person knowingly uses that fact to manipulate a person. I'm talking more about situations where a person knows they can leave but knows the alternative won't be as plush e.g., a chick preferring to continue living the high life instead of having to go back and live with mommy and daddy.
That's not the point of the comparison. I swear people on here don't understand how analogies work. You said your fear was that if people acknowledge the victim's role in a bad scenario that it will somehow keep people from believing the abuser needs to be punished. The point of the analogy was that people are still able to hold wrongdoers accountable even when they believe the wrongdoer is villainous too. So if, as you note, we're talking about a victim who may be complicit but isn't guilty of doing any harm, people should be even more willing to hold the abuser accountable.
@Chi-Town B wants us all to call Cassie a slut, but he doesn't seem to be making the argument that Puff shouldn't be punished, unless I just missed it.