How Long After You Die Does Your S/O Have To Wait Before Moving On?

Tayboo said:
I would like for @Mr BFK to mourn me for at least a year before he has some lady redecorating my house.

What's funny is a lot of older women have absolutely no shame shooting their shot when a man becomes a widow. One of my uncles had women trying to stop by with food and shit about 2 weeks after my aunt died, same with my neighbor.
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You ain't NEVAH lied!

I've had women get flirty at grocery stores and whatnot. They peep my wedding ring and be like "I better quit before your wife runs up". The moment I say "I'm a widower" they put on a full court press offering to cook dinner for me and shit like that. There's one bigger chick that I see at the hood Kroger once in a while that always says "hi" and throws it out there like "You ready for that dinner yet?". One cashier who, admittedly, is rather attractive sparked up a convo about these lil margarita and mojito bottles I bought talmbout she would ask to join me but "... your wife probably wouldn't like that". As soon as I said I was a widower it became coming over for drinks and she would cook for me and alladat.
 
If I become a widower....I really wonder who the first woman to bring me a plate going to be.... I'm pretty sure one of the chicks from church gonna jump on that shit.... Especially if their mom's pressure them about it...
 
Duwop said:
If I become a widower....I really wonder who the first woman to bring me a plate going to be.... I'm pretty sure one of the chicks from church gonna jump on that shit.... Especially if their mom's pressure them about it...
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It'll be someone you least expect.
 
konceptjones said:
It'll be someone you least expect.
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Naw, I'm pretty sure I gotta good idea...

I think we were all surprised at how good of a dad and husband I've become.

I was not giving those vibes in my early 20's..
If something happened to my wife, it would definitely be someone who knew me before her...
 
If I were to die she can move on whenever she feels ready. If it were reversed I doubt I'd look to seriously date for a while. Eventually I would but it would take a couple years before I would take that time to invest in somebody else.
 
konceptjones said:
You ain't NEVAH lied!

I've had women get flirty at grocery stores and whatnot. They peep my wedding ring and be like "I better quit before your wife runs up". The moment I say "I'm a widower" they put on a full court press offering to cook dinner for me and shit like that. There's one bigger chick that I see at the hood Kroger once in a while that always says "hi" and throws it out there like "You ready for that dinner yet?". One cashier who, admittedly, is rather attractive sparked up a convo about these lil margarita and mojito bottles I bought talmbout she would ask to join me but "... your wife probably wouldn't like that". As soon as I said I was a widower it became coming over for drinks and she would cook for me and alladat.
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My neighbor told me that after his wife died one of ladies that goes to their church offered to make some food for him and asked if he could pick it up from her house. He goes over there and the lady opens the door in lingerie...he said it was so awkward. A few other women were just showing up to his house to "comfort" him.
 
BlackRain said:
If I were to die she can move on whenever she feels ready. If it were reversed I doubt I'd look to seriously date for a while. Eventually I would but it would take a couple years before I would take that time to invest in somebody else.
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I'd never remarry

I would never want any chick to help me with my kids.

I prolly wouldn't even take a picture with a chick.

Like anybody I deal with will have to understand that they're going to forever play the background like a side chick
 
Tayboo said:
My neighbor told me that after his wife died one of ladies that goes to their church offered to make some food for him and asked if he could pick it up from her house. He goes over there and the lady opens the door in lingerie...he said it so awkward. A few other women were just showing up to his house to "comfort" him.
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I can see all of this happening. Back inna day I woulda figured "Ah, Old School outchea exaggerating, ain't no women acting like that", but these days I can totally see it.
 
Duwop said:
I'd never remarry

I would never want any chick to help me with my kids.

I prolly wouldn't even take a picture with a chick.

Like anybody I deal with will have to understand that they're going to forever play the background like a side chick
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That would just be too much for me. If another woman is gonna be in my life then she would be there. I may not even remarry but I wouldn't hide her at all.
 
Tayboo said:
My neighbor told me that after his wife died one of ladies that goes to their church offered to make some food for him and asked if he could pick it up from her house. He goes over there and the lady opens the door in lingerie...he said it so awkward. A few other women were just showing up to his house to "comfort" him.
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Man when my wife's mother passed... This nigga brought some chick to the house that night while we were eating crabs....

Man we whooped both their asses
 
Chi-Town B said:
It's never especially if we have kids, no new nigga playing dad. I wouldn't bring a new woman to play mom if my S/O died
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So assuming your S/O exercises good judgement. You wouldn't want your kids to have a good father figure in their lives to do the things that you're not around to do?

You really worried about a nigga steppin on your toes when your toes are 6 ft underground?
 
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