I didn't say it was just black women. Pierce said that. I think it's all women. And yes, all humans have a problem with it, but not every group has every problem to the same degree. The fact is that, for most of history, women haven't been held accountable to the same degree because the expectations weren't the same for women. That's the other side of living in a patriarchy that no one talks about.
- If a chick leaves the house and screws up, she can come back home and figure it out and there isn't a stigma. If a dude does the same he's a fuck up and depending on how strict the parents are, going back home isn't even an option. That's part of the reason there are so many more homeless men on the streets than there are women.
- A woman doesn't want a baby, she can abort it because her body her choice. A man doesn't want a baby, well too bad, he should have been more responsible.
- A woman walks half naked into a sexually charged atmosphere with a bunch of drunk dudes and gets groped. She has the right to wear whatever whenever. A man walks through a poor neighborhood wearing a bunch of expensive jewelry and gets beaten and robbed. He's an idiot that should have known better.
- When men cheat, they are dirty and terrible human beings. When women cheat, the man must have not been giving her what she needed.
- If a man hits a bigger man and gets his ass beat, he's a dumbass that should have known better. If a woman hits a man and gets her ass beat, the man is a terrible human being that should have better self-control.
Yes, the statement is a generalization, but we really going to act like we don't see scenarios like the ones above every day? We really going to act like that doesn't lead to chicks believing they don't have to be accountable in a way that's not as prevalent with men. Men been saying this shit. Nowadays, you can hear dating coaches, therapists, and even gay chicks saying the same thing. At what point can we stop acting like it's a baseless accusation. Both men and women have good and bad qualities that are somewhat dependent on gender. That's just a consequence of how society treats the two groups differently.