Were you ever in fights in school? Like what are we really talking about here. Are we now ok with kids stabbing each other over a grab? Even people who banged out here didn't take things that far over a simple confrontation
Fearing for your life is not subjective, you have to be reasonable in a life-threatening situation. Stop trying to give white people an open season card against us, because 90% of the time that logic would be used to condone us getting killed. You can't stab and kill someone over a grab