FEATURED Is There A Such Thing As "Out Of Your League" In Dating?

[Tayboo]

this right here is nothing but pure game.......




it is truly dangerous being a simp out here these days

Lucky for a certain simp that his pockets are safe because gifts aren't my preferred love language

My only counter

Three is a difference between receiving gifts and only receiving gifts that have a certain monetary value

In other words, at least to me, saying you only like designer bags isn't a love language. You want someone to trick on you to get shit you either can't or prefer not to get for yourself

I've seen this way too many times where the guy puts a ton of effort and thought into a gift and the woman not really feeling it cause it didn't have a certain amount of zeros in the price tag

By this, the guy is most certainly out of this woman's league

I can agree that some women simply want a trick, but again there's a pool of men who are very much willing to trick off. So instead of just leaving those women be, some men try to shame them into wanting something different.

 

[BlackRain]

Lucky for a certain simp that his pockets are safe because gifts aren't my preferred love language

I can agree that some women simply want a trick, but again there's a pool of men who are very much willing to trick off. So instead of just leaving those women be, some men try to shame them into wanting something different.

It's the equivalent of a woman getting with a man who is a known cheater then getting upset that he's cheating on her. You knew what you signed up for. If as a man you pursue and get with a woman who makes it known she's got certain taste then don't get mad at her for not lowering or changing those for you. Find a woman who wants the same things you do instead

 

[AP4.0]

Now ego has entered the chat lol

But the answer to the thread is yes

 

[Duwop]

Just cuz y'all ain't compatible doesn't mean someone is out your league....

What happens when the guy has the money, but just refuses to buy gifts cuz he's protective of his money?

Is he out of his league? Or just incompatible with a woman who feels bags are her love language?

 

[AP4.0]

Just cuz y'all ain't compatible doesn't mean someone is out your league....

What happens when the guy has the money, but just refuses to buy gifts cuz he's protective of his money?

Is he out of his league? Or just incompatible with a woman who feels bags are her love language?

That's a different convo

 

[Duwop]

That's a different convo

Lol, it's 100% the same convo bruh.. just cuz you got it don't mean you gotta say yes every time. You can tell a chick no.

 

[Greg.nice]

define "date"? in my mind dating is jus having nights on the town here n there n maybe fooling around if nature takes it there... we aint even gotta do that though aint nobody stressin over no ass

theres a wide difference between that and taking someone serious

under those guidelines, ill damn near date anyone (short of gang banging broads... never again)

I've " dated" out of my league before knowing it would lead nowhere... I was tryna see what the lady could show me... mostly empty lecturing

 

[Dwayne]

Yes

 

[Tayboo]

Yes

In your opinion what kind of woman would be out of your league?

 

[The Lonious Monk]

Lol, it's 100% the same convo bruh.. just cuz you got it don't mean you gotta say yes every time. You can tell a chick no.

It is a different conversation though.

When people say someone is out of so and so's league, they are basically just saying that so and so doesn't meet that person's standards. You can meet standards but not be interested in upholding those standards.

In your scenario, if a chick needs a man that makes 7 figures because she wants to live a certain lifestyle, any man that makes that amount is in her league, but that doesn't mean that all those men are compatible with here.

Anyway, the answer is yes. Some people have standards that they won't bend on. There are chicks that aren't dating any guy below a certain height. It doesn't matter how much game or money he has if that chick is convinced she can find exactly what she wants.

 

[konceptjones]

My only counter

Three is a difference between receiving gifts and only receiving gifts that have a certain monetary value

In other words, at least to me, saying you only like designer bags isn't a love language. You want someone to trick on you to get shit you either can't or prefer not to get for yourself

I've seen this way too many times where the guy puts a ton of effort and thought into a gift and the woman not really feeling it cause it didn't have a certain amount of zeros in the price tag

By this, the guy is most certainly out of this woman's league

Had a broad I was fucking around with back inna day like that. Got her a really simple gift once that seemed like something she would dig based on our conversations while getting to know one another, but it wasn't expensive in the slightest and she got to acting funny styled about it and left it at my crib intentionally.

 

[Dwayne]

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[Dwayne]

In your opinion what kind of woman would be out of your league?

a woman that’s looking for something I cant provide regardless of how much I’m attracted to her.

 

[Duwop]

It is a different conversation though.

When people say someone is out of so and so's league, they are basically just saying that so and so doesn't meet that person's standards. You can meet standards but not be interested in upholding those standards.

In your scenario, if a chick needs a man that makes 7 figures because she wants to live a certain lifestyle, any man that makes that amount is in her league, but that doesn't mean that all those men are compatible with here.

Anyway, the answer is yes. Some people have standards that they won't bend on. There are chicks that aren't dating any guy below a certain height. It doesn't matter how much game or money he has if that chick is convinced she can find exactly what she wants.

I think the term "out of your league" is superficial at core....

It's a way to justify ridiculous standards... And I say ridiculous only due to the amount of times "exceptions" are made.

At some point we gotta stop excusing exceptions and call it what it really is...a BS term... The laws of attraction have shattered people's standards way too many times..... And half the time people don't even understand the parameters of what they consider their standard.

I watched a video of chicks the other day saying they can't date a guy under 6ft tall....

The nigga interviewing was like 5'10" and the chicks thought he was over 6ft.... They don't be knowing what the hell they talking about. And that's true for most standards

 

[Duwop]

I'll never forget a chick saying I was out of her league cuz I don't wear Jordans. I bought a bootleg pair for $35 and smashed that weekend.. Mainly because I knew she has no idea what she was talking about. It just sounded good to her at the time.

 

[Duwop]

a woman that’s looking for something I cant provide regardless of how much I’m attracted to her.

Bruh I'm 100% confident you can still bag that chick regardless of what she's saying out her mouth..

If you really wanted to. They just be saying shit.

 

[Elzo69Renaissance]

No get ur game right

I watched some bs called love and lockup the other day and these chicks were fighting over a nigga fresh out of jail

 

[Duwop]

No get ur game right

I watched some bs called love and lockup the other day and these chicks were fighting over a nigga fresh out of jail

That's my whole thing...

Now I totally get not wanting to be with a chick long term cuz she's too materialistic and y'all just don't see eye to eye on shit.... But that's don't mean she out your league. I'm confident most guys can pull most chicks given the right scenario... Now how long it lasts is a different thing..... But if you can get to the table that sentiment is bullshit. It's a cop out.

Like can a dude be out a chicks league? I know niggaz who will holla at a chick in the McDonald's drive thru... How is he not out her league? If the argument don't work both ways... It's a weak argument.

Y'all can pull them bougie chicks if you really put your mind to it.

 

[Inglewood_B]

The internet be funny… niggas get on and front like they gettin big money and then get mad at women who get online pretending to be high maintenance.

If a woman tell you, “You can’t date me unless you make X amount” or “I need to bought gifts of a certain value” or “You gotta be 6 ft tall and in shape…” or whatever other superficial… I feel like she just did you a favor.

Don’t miss what you never had.

 

[The Lonious Monk]

Bruh I'm 100% confident you can still bag that chick regardless of what she's saying out her mouth..

If you really wanted to. They just be saying shit.

Some do, some don't.

Everything is on a case by case basis. It also depends on what you want? A chick my let you hit, but that doesn't mean she would take you seriously for more than that.