I believe you save shit like eating ass for a special significant relationship. And you only do it for significant occasions. Something to look forward to for her. Ya mean, like an anniversary she geeked cause of how much you’ll do for the occasion during the day, and the special considerations she’ll get that evening.
I now understand that you shouldn’t make the freaky stuff part of your regular repertoire. Cause once you do it enough that it becomes your vanilla, where do you go? What could be seen as the freakiest of sex to most people is shit yall do on a random Tuesday.
Anticipation is the best aphrodisiac, I’ve found.