is kevin samuels... “you know”

[Race Jones]

honestly anybody relying on someone from youtube to instruct them on how to do this life shit, cant be helped. whether i like kevin samuels or not, i know that many people, like himself, know how lucrative it is to say a whole bunch of bullshit in a certain way that entices people with low self esteem and poor identity issues

cc: tariq nasheed, dr umar, boyce watkins

reality is people live kevin samuels, derrick jaxn, steve harvey, etc know that the majority of folks are too lazy to shape their own moral and ethical compass. people are too lazy to really sit down with themselves and map out their own idealogies and way of being that is rooted in being fair and just.

no reasonable man would find entertainment in another man tearing down others in the name of “truth” or “keeping it real”— whether Black, puerto rican or asian, especially when truth is subjective pertaining to relationships

if kevin samuels wasnt being paid for his ghetto ministry, would he still take calls? would he still be out here trying to “help” men and women minus the social media fame and tokens?

i dont think so.

when money is the motivator, the soul goes.

 

[Race Jones]

Niggas gotta stop following relationship advice online man lol. Every relationship is different and fails when folks try to "be" like other people.

Facts!

 

[Bow to Royalty]

honestly anybody relying on someone from youtube to instruct them on how to do this life shit, cant be helped. whether i like kevin samuels or not, i know that many people, like himself, know how lucrative it is to say a whole bunch of bullshit in a certain way that entices people with low self esteem and poor identity issues

cc: tariq nasheed, dr umar, boyce watkins

reality is people live kevin samuels, derrick jaxn, steve harvey, etc know that the majority of folks are too lazy to shape their own moral and ethical compass. people are too lazy to really sit down with themselves and map out their own idealogies and way of being that is rooted in being fair and just.

no reasonable man would find entertainment in another man tearing down others in the name of “truth” or “keeping it real”— whether Black, puerto rican or asian, especially when truth is subjective pertaining to relationships

if kevin samuels wasnt being paid for his ghetto ministry, would he still take calls? would he still be out here trying to “help” men and women minus the social media fame and tokens?

i dont think so.

People do get help from people that put some of their services online though. Lots of people have benefited from self-help talks/seminars/whatever. I mean facts are facts... the people you named have helped some people.

It is entertaining because it's funny sometimes, and it's seeing conceited people get knocked off their pedestal.

I'm not sure the pay angle. Anyone that wouldn't do their job for free isn't a good person?

 

[silverfoxx]

I think y’all should listen to a few of his videos all the way thru to understand.

some of these chicks and dudes are delusional af

I've watched some where delusion was there, however I recommend them to get and seek professional advice. ALOT of shit he says is jaded and one dimensional. It's like black folks don't understand nuance. Like bro I'm not about to wife no submissive ass beautiful woman, shit cool for like 10 min but that's not ALL I seek lol I want my partner to actually contribute intellectually, not be no pick me. Dated women like that and they boring as fuck. But if folks are into that, then that's a preference.

For him to have the attitude that that's the standard and what most men want is simply not true lol.

I personally want balance. My lady knows when to be submissive at the same time she ain't no wuss.

 

[Focal Point]

I don't know if I'd categorize it as relationship advice exactly. He's not telling couples how to get through their issues. He basically just tells people how the opposite sex views them, how to increase their appeal, and helps them have more realistic expectations.

From what I heard I can agree with this. And the biggest thing for many people is it's not what you say, but how you say it.

The reality is male or female you might not be many people's cup of tea (body shape, kids, job, car, baggage, education, behavior, etc) but there is somebody that digs your flavor, just gotta push to find it. But that also means don't be mad at the opposite sex because nobody is interested yet keep kissing or trying to kiss them frogs

 

[Focal Point]

I've watched some where delusion was there, however I recommend them to get and seek professional advice. ALOT of shit he says is jaded and one dimensional. It's like black folks don't understand nuance. Like bro I'm not about to wife no submissive ass beautiful woman, shit cool for like 10 min but that's not ALL I seek lol I want my partner to actually contribute intellectually, not be no pick me. Dated women like that and they boring as fuck. But if folks are into that, then that's a preference.

For him to have the attitude that that's the standard and what most men want is simply not true lol.

I think that's the problem, its an illusion a lotta guys say they want that submissive beautiful woman until they get it and are bored. Same with some women, they push hard to get a particular type of rich cultural guy that they've been told is the one to go after and find out it ain't all that

 

[Race Jones]

People do get help from people that put some of their services online though. Lots of people have benefited from self-help talks/seminars/whatever. I mean facts are facts... the people you named have helped some people.

It is entertaining because it's funny sometimes, and it's seeing conceited people get knocked off their pedestal.

I'm not sure the pay angle. Anyone that wouldn't do their job for free isn't a good person?

i didnt say they havent helped people. im very clear and concise when i type. you dont have to try to guess what im saying, its all there.

im just saying these figureheads know theres money in saying basic shit in creative, or in kevin Samuels case, crude ways.

and what’s entertaining about seeing “conceited” people being knocked down? did someone that you deemed “conceited” curve you?

is it that people that value themselves at a low level are entertained by those that value themselves at a higher level being knocked down a few pegs?

is that what this is really about?

sounds like some revenge of the nerds shit

 

[silverfoxx]

I think that's the problem, its an illusion a lotta guys say they want that submissive beautiful woman until they get it and are bored. Same with some women, they push hard to get a particular type of rich cultural guy that they've been told is the one to go after and find out it ain't all that

Real shit. Kevin Samuels said one time "Men want women that know their place and look good" like bro that's not the only thing I want lol. If we keep it a buck, alot of fragile ego niggas need to be stroked constantly, that's why they get white women because a decent amount of white women are very submissive.


Like i said, it's not for me, but let's be honest man lol. Not saying one side is perfect, men and women have flaws, but people gotta be honest with what they want.

 

[Race Jones]

and oh btw, no man or woman should have to “look like a 10” just to have good standard for themselves

 

[DOS_patos]

When the word submissive is used ...it usually has negative attached to it. Same with falling in line and playing your position.

we all have roles in our relationships. That’s falling in line and playing your position.

media had messed up what was once a given.

 

[silverfoxx]

When the word submissive is used ...it usually has negative attached to it. Same with falling in line and playing your position.

we all have roles in our relationships. That’s falling in line and playing your position.

media had messed up what was once a given.

I can agree. Like I say, every relationship is different. There was a thread a while back where some folks encourage flirting, while I could never do shit like that, I respect everyone else shit. We just gotta stop acting like things gotta be like this or that, find what you and your partner like and fuck everything else man.

More in love with my Queen than ever and it's been going 5 years. Just gotta respect each other boundaries and spread love, but hey man I'm no expert so please don't take advice from me haha.

 

[Race Jones]

When the word submissive is used ...it usually has negative attached

because submission has a negative connotation in a since.

noun

1. 1.
   the action or fact of accepting or yielding to a superior force or to the will or authority of another person

either way, im about collaboration, not submission. yall can have that

 

[Focal Point]

I can agree. Like I say, every relationship is different. There was a thread a while back where some folks encourage flirting, while I could never do shit like that, I respect everyone else shit. We just gotta stop acting like things gotta be like this or that, find what you and your partner like and fuck everything else man.

More in love with my Queen than ever and it's been going 5 years. Just gotta respect each other boundaries and spread love, but hey man I'm no expert so please don't take advice from me haha.

Great post!! Thing about ppl calling Kevin is they're on the hunt for a partner and not already in a relationship. Like I think he's doing the self reflection piece so you don't end up disappointed. Correct me if I am wrong he's going at men and women with champagne taste and beer finance

 

[Focal Point]

because submission has a negative connotation in a since.

noun

1. 1.
   the action or fact of accepting or yielding to a superior force or to the will or authority of another person

either way, im about collaboration, not submission. yall can have that

What does collaboration look like to you? Also what does submission look like to you?

 

[Race Jones]

Great post!! Thing about ppl calling Kevin is they're on the hunt for a partner and not already in a relationship. Like I think he's doing the self reflection piece so you don't end up disappointed. Correct me if I am wrong he's going at men and women with champagne taste and beer finance

im sorry but i have to ask who cares? who cares if someone has champagne taste with “beer” finances?

like the shit people find entertaining be so stupid to me

 

[DOS_patos]

because submission has a negative connotation in a since.

noun

1. 1.
   the action or fact of accepting or yielding to a superior force or to the will or authority of another person

either way, im about collaboration, not submission. yall can have that

Nah......I submit to my wife’s expertise in certain areas. You can call it falling back, staying in my lane or what ever.
but where she’s good and I’m not, me giving her the control of the situation is yielding and thus making us more powerful,

So collaboration is also knowing when to “submit” or fall back and knowing when to allow the more experienced person to lead.

 

[Race Jones]

Nah......I submit to my wife’s expertise in certain areas. You can call it falling back, staying in my lane or what ever.
but where she’s good and I’m not, me giving her the control of the situation is yielding and thus making us more powerful,

So collaboration is also knowing when to “submit” or fall back and knowing when to allow the more experienced person to lead.

whatever nigga.

 

[Focal Point]

im sorry but i have to ask who cares? who cares if someone has champagne taste with “beer” finances?

like the shit people find entertaining but so stupid to me

I agree, but then why would these people call him in the 1st place asking him advice on how to get the champagne when they can just figure it out themselves... or not. He'd be lying to them if he gave elaborate advice to do so when we know it don't work that way

 

[Race Jones]

the whole concept of submission reeks of chattle slavery. hate the idea/concept no matter how people spin it

 

[Focal Point]

the whole concept of submission reeks of chattle slavery. hate the idea/concept no matter how people spin it

Would you prefer to use a different word?