Do You Test Your S/O?

If someone argues me down about who should go get gloves and a hat, I will be pissed off. Choose your battles. That’s not a battle worth fighting at all.

It's not a fuss, I'm just asking a question.

Same would be if, you're folding clothes and you see he has holes in his shirt, are you going to Wal-Mart and purchasing that 5 pack of hanes white-T-shirts and tossing them to him while he's watching the game and be on some "I got you some new shirts, yo old ones had holes in them" or you're going to be like "um yo shirts have holes in them, you need to go buy you some new ones"

Just asking, discussing
 
If your girl/wifey walks out the house without those items and you know she doesn't have those things in her closet, are you going to ask her to buy those things cuz you know she can afford them "You need to get you something to put on your head and get some gloves" this is what you're saying to her as she walks out the door for work, or are you going to get up and stop by the store and buy her a scarf/hat/gloves and bring those things home just off the strength of you seeing her without those things and you know she needs them? even though she can afford them?

Honestly wouldn't cross my mind, if she wanted them she would have them.
 
It's not a fuss, I'm just asking a question.

Same would be if, you're folding clothes and you see he has holes in his shirt, are you going to Wal-Mart and purchasing that 5 pack of hanes white-T-shirts and tossing them to him while he's watching the game and on some "I got you some new shirts, yo old ones had holes in them" or you're going to be like "um yo shirts have holes in them, you need to go buy you some new ones"

Just asking, discussing

Depending on how I’m feeling.

I might be in the mood to go buy him shirts or I might tell his ass to go buy some shirts. There is no one answer.
 
Why are you waiting to get him these things, when you know it will be 20 degrees all week?

You want him to be sick? I mean, you see the situation, why not be the one to put the fire out 1st, I mean that is your dude right?

Just asking
Well, if he didn't ask me to purchase those things...

Closed mouths don't get fed these days.:ainttrippin:
 
Why are you waiting to get him these things, when you know it will be 20 degrees all week?

You want him to be sick? I mean, you see the situation, why not be the one to put the fire out 1st, I mean that is your dude right?

Just asking

What happened to grown ass men... Just asking.

Women were put here to be protected. Men were put here to protect. Get your head right.
Why didn't either one of you get head outta your ass before it got cold. If y'all are that fuckin tight to where you have "feelings" enough to fuel this debacle you both knew you didn't have this shit in the fall... Which is when she should have started teasing you in the first fucking place to give you the opportunity to be the fucking man in your relationship. This isn't the animal fucking kingdom. We ain't lions and you know how to gather your own goddam shit. No?

Also... You redundancy triggered my we're done dance mentality.

JUST SAYIN
 
Depending on how I’m feeling.

I might be in the mood to go buy him shirts or I might tell his ass to go buy some shirts. There is no one answer.

Understandable.

So you have to be in a certain mood to supply/address your dude's needs?

What happened to for better or worse? Lol

Let' me stop, but I feel you Kandy
 
Well, if he didn't ask me to purchase those things...

Closed mouths don't get fed these days.:ainttrippin:


Why does he have to ask? if you see a fire, you have to ask to put it out? Lol

You ask for wants, not needs I thought

Nothing wrong with your stance though. I respect it
 
What y’all gon be for Halloween?

Dad walking his lil girl around the neighborhood

speaking of...she and i are gonna go get a pumpkin and paint it next weekend. Bought her one last year and didnt do shit with it so it rotted lol
Understandable,

Just like if you seen her with a tore down bra, that she complains about, you wouldn't go out and purchase her a new one off the strength of her old bra is bad and tore down?

this a bad example b/c chicks generally get measured for bras, so while you may have good intentions, you might buy her a bra that she has to take back b/c she has to get the size she is in at that time. But i get the point you trying to make
 
@Knock_Twice u drop the weirdest scenarios n get hung up on getting 1 response.

what inspired this

"I shouldn't have to ask/say this to you, you should already know this"

"Catering to your s/o needs"

"If you don't have it, I'll get it for you baby don't worry"


Just thinking back on what this old couple, use to tell one another.
 
Understandable,

Just like if you seen her with a tore down bra, that she complains about, you wouldn't go out and purchase her a new one off the strength of her old bra is bad and tore down?
We gotta go get her a new bra and panty set. Not for her, for me pause. I like seeing a good bra and panty set on a woman tho.

So her walking around the house or in public with a raggedy set gonna fuck with me

I'm helping me by helping me you feel me
 
We gotta go get her a new bra and panty set. Not for her, for me pause. I like seeing a good bra and panty set on a woman tho.

So her walking around the house or in public with a raggedy set gonna fuck with me

I'm helping me by helping me you feel me

That's all I'm stating.

Why have your s/o looking all crazy, dude doesn't have a hat nor gloves on, that's a representation on you as well. Lol

You wouldn't send your son or daughter out in public properly unequip, (yea they are kids) but the caring/love (I think) should be the same that you have for your kids as you do your man, (again I think)


You know NBA2k18 is about to come out (came out) Can you get that for a me?

You know your woman likes to keep her toes and nails done, keep her tank on F or above 3/4, car washed/inside cleaned, "Should I be on some, you need to clean and wash that dirty motherfucker" or should I get my ass up and take it down to Bennys and wash it.

Love/Caring is all we need Lol
 
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That's all I'm stating.

Why have your s/o looking all crazy, dude doesn't have a hat nor gloves on, that's a representation on you as well. Lol

You wouldn't send your son or daughter out in public properly unequip, (yea they are kids) but the caring/love (I think) should be the same that you have for kids as you do your man, (again I think)
I hear but I think going out and getting it is as good as you mentioning to them.

I know in my history I haven't the wrong shit/size 9/10 so I'd rather just finance the shit and call it a day. But if she like I'm good, I like this raggedy set, it's gonna irk me but I ain't going out to surprise her with a new set. It's gonna irk the fuck outta me tho

If the nigga say he don't want a hat and glove, fuck it. Let him freeze.
 
I hear but I think going out and getting it is as good as you mentioning to them.

I know in my history I haven't the wrong shit/size 9/10 so I'd rather just finance the shit and call it a day. But if she like I'm good, I like this raggedy set, it's gonna irk me but I ain't going out to surprise her with a new set. It's gonna irk the fuck outta me tho

If the nigga say he don't want a hat and glove, fuck it. Let him freeze.


Lmaooo
 
"I shouldn't have to ask/say this to you, you should already know this"

"Catering to your s/o needs"

"If you don't have it, I'll get it for you baby don't worry"


Just thinking back on what this old couple, use to tell one another.


Oh well see that's entirely different. That only fits under the wifey category whether you married or not. That old couple got seniority on everything else and everybody should aspire to that. But they don't. Commitment is like a fucking plague to people.
 
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