Soul_Rattler
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Pay homage to this great woman whose words ring as true in 2020 as they did in 1989 when she wrote her book "The Black man's guide to understanding the black woman".
Shaharazad Ali Appreciation Thread
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Soul_Rattler
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Please no "pick me" insults or "she advocates domestic violence" lies.
Ms. Ali has dedicated her life to the purpose of healing Black relationships and undoing the damaging effects of feminism. If a man said even half of what she's ever said, everyone would call him a sexist pig who didn't know what he was talking about because he's not a woman.
If women can't accept correction from men and WON'T accept correction from a woman, what hope is there for any of us?
Soul_Rattler
Active Member
She advocated the lessening of violence.
Whether you think her tactic is effective or ineffective is another matter. But I've seen too many people take her out of context to say "Shaharazad Ali said it's ok for men to hit women" when that is a clear and intentional falsehood.
Fam I've watched that clip and lecture several times. Telling a group of women if they back talk their man (paraphrasing) he has the right to hit you like you a child that needs disciplining ain't some shit I'm rolling with. Spin it however you want.
Again, I dont have an issue with her outside of that.
Soul_Rattler
Active Member
"Back talk"
Let's talk about it.
Is emotional abuse better, worse, or equal to physical abuse?
Dont know. I've never been emotionally or physically abused to say which is worse.
But let's keep it in context of her own words. If your girl disagree with you about a family decision, should you have the right to escalate a heated discussion to a physical altercation?
Soul_Rattler
Active Member
You're paraphrasing her words and thus distorting them.
If you've listened to her lectures as often as I have, you've heard her speak specifically on studies which conclude that emotional abuse is as damaging as physical abuse and often times it is the woman's emotional abuse of nagging, antagonizing, and insulting her man which leads to him physically abusing her.
That's not an ass whooping falling out of thin air.
I'm paraphrasing cuz I dont have the shit memorized lol I'm not making up she said that if you need to pull quotes you are welcome to do it.
I'm not rolling with somebody escalating verbal to physical in a domestic situation. Leave til you cool off or break up.
Soul_Rattler
Active Member
You are welcome show me where she ever said it was ok to violate a woman.
Oh ok so she never said the thing that kicked this conversation off. Cool.
deadeye
Warrior
Taken out of context.
The message was that women need to cut down on the back talk.
It wasn't intended to give men a license to hit their women.
Just like if I say, if somebody's dumb enough to swim with alligators or crocodiles.......they might as well put a bullet in their head.
The message isn't for them to shoot themselves.
It's to tell them that it's not a good idea to swim with alligators/crocodiles.
Lmao yall telling I'm taking it outa context like I didnt see and hear the shit with my own eyes and ears.
This the 3rd time ima say I'm not rolling with escalating a verbal situation to a physical one. Regardless of who started it. Keep your hands and objects to yourself.
DMorgan
You niggas is EXCOMMUNICADO!!!
Color me shocked!!! I never took you for a person who allows someone to say anything out of their mouth to you and because they didn't touch you, you just walk away.
I can't live like that. A man ain't just going to say anything out his mouth to me and not get punched in the face if it crosses the line. Shit I've punched people in the face for talking shit about my folks.
Everything ain't for everybody but if it works for you I'm good with it.
DOS_patos
Unverified Legion of Trill member
definitely need another thread to speak about this.
Playmaker88
G Money is Cash
she is shot out she use to set fire to them cacs on HLN
DOS_patos
Unverified Legion of Trill member
i dont think thats what she means or what hes trying to imply.
but as far as you never being touched....thats a great thing to hear. you seem to carry yourself real different than most and you dont like "b" niggas. you need to write a book. i dont know too many women that can say what you just said.
salut and continue to stay safe.
deadeye
Warrior
Again, that wasn't the intended message.
What makes more sense to you?
That she was telling black women to not be as argumentative or combative?
Or that she was telling black men they need to beat their women if they get out of line?
Basically, most of the women who have a problem with what she said don't want to stop being combative and argumentative.
So they flipped her words around to make it seem like she was advocating abuse.
That way, it gives them an excuse to disregard what Ms. Ali was trying to tell them.
