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Idk how I find myself in these situations. My boy been dropping hints that he not happy in his marriage. They aint having no issues, he just not feeling fulfilled. So he been dropping hints but fam thats a heavy ass topic, fuck im supposed to say? So i been ignoring like I wasnt picking up hints.

Not like theres abuse or someone cheating and I can clearly say yea fam end it. He just feeling like he dont love her no more. So I been changing topics everytime he try to take it there.

Today he came out and told me he wanted to talk and if I could call him. Smh. I aint qaulified to talk about stuff like this man. Called my boy, we talked. Shit was a heavy ass convo. I aint know what to tell him. He asked for advice and I just told him I wasnt comfortable giving any advice on this and that I was just there to listen to his issues. Told him to just get counseling.

I just got to stop having friends.

If you can't get over yourself...don't get married.

Real talk.

It aint about just you no more at that point. And if you and your spouse aren't growing together and individually all at the same time, you won't ever be satisfied. And that "growth" means different thongs to different people. Better make sure yall are aligned. And if yall aint, you knew before yall got married.

Bruh selfish. And it aint nothing you are anyone else can say to help him
 
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At the 12yr mark there is a natural tendency to find in someone else all the things you first enjoyed about your partner. So say your a thinker right, its common to find another thinker cuz its jives good. Well come the 12yr mark ppl will find attraction to someone who is more feeling cuz you're growing as a human and desiring a balance so that you can evolve so-to-speak. 7yr mark is also about growing and evolving with your partner. But if nothing is brought to the table and dug into and worked through shit just ends up turning to a war and often times a break up. Quite sad really.

Just read this.


You get it.
 
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