Ladies, Just Ask the Fellas
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IP360
Doctorate & Ph.D in Bootyology
E-G-O
B/c those type of men are use to the women catching the feels. So when they do...the men react accordingly. It's boosts their ego. They're in "control"
BUT when they meet a woman who flips it on them...hit'em wit the...
reaction...then actually follows thru wit her no fuccs given attitude towards catching feelings...you're essentially doing this to his ego...
His brain doesn't know how to compute that.
So now he's gonna do everything he can to regain "control" by tryin to get YOU to catch feelings.
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The Mad Titan
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Dudes be fallin in love with the p and get territorial. But I think its just a ppl thing in general women do the same thing
Showing you pay attention to little shit. Like for instance if you know I like a certain food surprising me with it. Or even something as simple as "I grabbed you some blunts from the gas station when I stopped for gas". Just little shit like that that shows you actually pay attention to me and not just thinking any generic shit can be done
ImaInfluenza
Who do you think you are? I am
Understand my moods and what she should do when Im in one.
Having interest in something that I’m highly interested in.
Knowing me and acting accordingly
Appreciating what I do.
and the last one and most important..don’t play wit me. Like..ion care if you flirt, but don’t be on some nigga dick infront of me. Know what being on a nigga dick look like..a lot of chicks be like “ whaaaa I’m just talking”
Ironman
Genius, Billionaire, Playboy, Philanthropist
Being open to watching sports and actually enjoying watching with me. My ex used to not give a damn and now she ended up asking me about who's playing tonight, what's their record n shit lol. Being able to enjoy different genres of music was always big for me too.
Understanding that I sometimes just require time by myself and like my space. Nothing to do with her I just need my peace of mind too.
I think the biggest pc of horse shit is ppl saying they don't catch feelings.You spend enough time with a person and yall have great moments you gonna catch feelings. It's inevitable. Good vibes is good vibes
These feelings don't mean yall gotta take the situation to the next level, but shit, ain't nothing wrong with admitting to liking a person more now than when yall originally linked up
Mister B.
The Devil’s Greatest Advocate…..
The old mama I used to rock with before I made that move with the wife. She was 13 years my senior. I couldn't do nothing but respect the moves made. Plus, she taught a young 20-somethin some shit. Never got mouf while driving before she came along. Never drove a woman's car before that, either. She had me whippin her truck. If she wasn't married, she would've been the only woman I would've been a step daddy for.
K
King Freeman
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Just being there. Quality time and physical touch are my love languages. If I really fuck with you like that (which is rare) I just want you around. All in my personal space. We don't even have to be doing anything inparticular. I'm a boring nigga that likes everything calm and low key, can you be boring and low key with me and just be in my space without fucking up the vibes?
That's adds to my happiness in a relationship. And I definitely need someone on a similar wave.
IP360
Doctorate & Ph.D in Bootyology
Majority of the women I've dealt were the ones who shot their shot 1st. Why? B/c my azzz was too clueless to recognize the signs that they were interested in me.
A lot of that had to do wit being rejected when I was a skinny brotha. So when came across a chick who WAS interested...I didn't take it seriously. B/c there was a couple of times I got played. So I didn't really know how to react. Was just preparing myself to get friend zoned to oblivion.
I'm hoping that he has had that talk and she's on birth control. If not he rolling the dice.So I have a question
If a guy your intimate with vehemently proclaims to not want children right now, but goes in raw and bust a nut in you.
What does that mean?
Is thejust that damn good and they just lose all sense of control?
If he had said this why would you keep letting him bust off in you?
Royal
Active Member
We not talking about the females actions right now....I am curious as to the dudes actions lol.
but yeah this female should probably not fuck with dude at all( for other reasons lol)
S/N: the female may have had a ain't shit moment
. As this particular dude is an ex-boyfriendLike have you ever been in the coochi and just lost your discipline. Or you never go raw unless she on birth control?
Oh naw I went yogi bear before and bussed I only be nervous about the one's I don't see any type of future with. That post nut clarity is a bitch though. But I usually will have that convo of do I need to pull out or not.We not talking about the females actions right now....I am curious as to the dudes actions lol.
but yeah this female should probably not fuck with dude at all( for other reasons lol)
S/N: the female may have had a ain't shit moment
Like have you ever been in the coochi and just lost your discipline. Or you never go raw unless she on birth control?
So I have a question
If a guy your intimate with vehemently proclaims to not want children right now, but goes in raw and bust a nut in you.
What does that mean?
Is the
It means he on that spectrum where his words don't match his actions. Also he might be on that weird rapey type of time, where just like busting inside of women when they least expect it.
Every man be there, where once or twice or five times a year, you stick it in and you go for about 5 minutes and then you wake the fuck up and realize you fucking some chick raw and you panic.
Women be thinking they pussy good, that's why the man roll over and go right to sleep. Nah, that motherfucker is having a panic attack and he praying it's just a wet dream. He thinking he just fucked up his life up over some pussy.
I know the hearts of men. Lol, men like to be yeah I beat the pussy up 3 months later after no baby came. I would say half of all men experience terror after cumming inside pussy.
And when the baby don't come, it emboldens men to keep doing it. It's like why people watch horror movies, they get to experience scary, terrifying shit and they don't die. Being terrified of the worst happening and it doesn't happen is the best high.
A smart man will grow out of this and realize he playing with his life. After about the fourth pregnancy scare or the 1st miscarriage that he quietly celebrated because he didn't want a baby by that woman, he has learned.
His whole life style changes. He starts fucking women he actually like. He don't fuck raw, never ever ever. He don't fuck in the dark. He don't fuck drunk or high. He starts respecting women more, not because he admires them for being strong and nurturing or any of that bullshit, but because he knows pussy can fuck his life up. His respect for women is like organized crime's respect for law enforcement.
Dumb ones keep doing until they get a woman that can't stand pregnant. And they the ones that say I don't want a kid but fuck women raw.
Most men ain't even practice fucking a chick raw and not coming. They don't know the signs of them about to bust. They don't know how to hold the cum in. They just blindly fucking until some shit squirt out they dick.
Shit is an artform and science.
Men that say they don't want kids and fuck chicks raw are crazy. Women that let men fuck them raw and they know that man that don't want kids are crazy.
In fact, if you having sex regularly with someone and you never discussed what's the plan is if an unintended pregnancy was to occur, y'all crazy. If y'all can't get on the same page of keeping it or not keeping it, y'all don't need to fuck.
And that's why I started fucking high end escorts in the 90s. Condoms are always in use. STD checks are regular. They are always on birth control. If an unintended pregnancy occurs, they are aborting that motherfucker because there's an abortion settlement discussed beforehand.
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mryounggun
OG
So I have a question
If a guy your intimate with vehemently proclaims to not want children right now, but goes in raw and bust a nut in you.
What does that mean?
Is the
Stupidity and lack of self control.
The end.
dodge
Brooklyn Bred
So I have a question
If a guy your intimate with vehemently proclaims to not want children right now, but goes in raw and bust a nut in you.
What does that mean?
Is the
He’s dumb
Kool from the Gang
The Game is the Game
Shit, could I? I WANT to be with a woman who smarter than me. Who tf helping the kids with the advanced algebra?!
As for the whole, ‘more successful career wise’, I wouldn’t be hard up about that either as long as she leave the career at the office, so to speak. All I’m saying by that is, don’t come home with that ‘ordering your subordinates around’ mentality, and even if we don’t start out that way, don’t fall into those mental trappings.
I wouldn’t honestly care if she was the more successful career person, but it seems to me that most women do, and let’s say she’s making $100k+ as a head nurse at a metropolitan hospital while I’m making $87k doing what I’m doing. More often than not, the $87k is what’s gonna be taking care of things around the home or, expected to be.