B_A
I was here
Missing out on what? I have always been curious what a man gets from hanging out with a woman he has no interest in.
Is It a Date or Not?
- Thread starter Goldie
- Start date
B_A
I was here
So then it's a wanna be date?
who runs errands with a chick they don’t like or have some interest in. People barely like running errands for their own shit.
mryounggun
OG
How is it any different than hanging out with any person you find interesting and enjoy speaking with and spending time around?
Talk about shit. Get different perspectives about shit. Who wants to talk into an echo chamber and have their own viewpoints just reflected back at them?
I don’t understand how niggas find no value in women who bless its romantic. It’s bizarre. Y’all know women are whole human beings, with their own interesting thoughts and perspectives, right?
I mean, you talking to a woman so I'm sure she knows
B_A
I was here
I dont understand the whole echo chamber part. Is that to say when conversing with other men it's just your own view points coming back or?
mryounggun
OG
Sometimes, yeah. There is a perspective that only a woman will be able to give you. Same with women only talking with other women. There is a perspective about shit that you can only get from a man. When you talk about certain shit with other women, I’m sure there are situations where you pretty much all approach whatever topic from the same viewpoint.
It’s just natural for that to be the case.
mryounggun
OG
I mean, I’d think so as well. Didn’t sound like it.
B_A
I was here
Baahh who'm I foolin, everyone thought I was a dude for 7+yrs on the IC, some still do haha
Rubato
it only matters to us
True, but I can text her to get that
If we going somewhere and it’s just the two of us it’s most likely a date
i see ABW has reverted to the "black and white" days
if you want to try to associate some "technical meaning" for what a date is/isn't, then ok. An outing with two people of the opposite sex, however, you can do those things and remain completely platonic without there being some ulterior motive from each party.
if you want to try to associate some "technical meaning" for what a date is/isn't, then ok. An outing with two people of the opposite sex, however, you can do those things and remain completely platonic without there being some ulterior motive from each party.
A date is romantic and not platonic. If it's platonic yall just hanging out.
Canon
Active Member
If yall fuck after meeting up is it considered a date?
this...
ImaInfluenza
Who do you think you are? I am
That's something I do do, I rather run errands with a woman than by myself or wit another dude.
Unless I said different years ago in this same thread under a different name
ImaInfluenza
Who do you think you are? I am
Lol...wasnt even more than a page back
Were yall feeling each other romantically prior to the date? If so, yes it was a date.
i showed up not realizing it was a date...