DEBATE Where do you draw your line? Men vs. Women

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Fellas, do you have a certain point where you stop "helping" and "serving" and "being nice" to the women around you just for the sake of them being women? Serious question.

Not about simping or being friend zoned at all.

I live with all women and work with mostly women. Im a nice guy and all, and I try to keep chivalry alive out here but

for real, Jack.


Aint no trophies, cookies, pats on the back, keep up the good work, none of the sort.

Any and every time there's some sort of manual labor to be done, no matter how small or menial....its the batty eyed :

"you not gone help me?"

"oh I just cant, can you grab this?"

"im leaving early can you carry something to my car for me?"

An actual example from my office this morning: A man and a woman in different departments need a document from me

**Man: ay you got that sheet?
Me: yeah
Man: cool im on my way

*Woman: hey do you have that sheet?
Me: yeah
Woman: (10 mins goes by)
Woman: I can come get it if you need me to

LOOK BISH!!!! I dont NEED anything thats just the right fucking thing to do when YOU need something. GO GET IT!! but nah lol.....it was absolutely expected that I deliver the shit, and on the days when im not having it, its like "you ok?" "wake up on the wrong side?"

This is every day, all the time.


Fellas, where's your line?

Ladies, why ya'll do this shit?

 

[Lea]

I don't think I do this at work. I only ask for help if I absolutely CAN'T do it on my own. I think the only person I do this to is my dad and he secretly loves being needed so no harm no foul. I hear women do it all the time though and laugh at the men too afraid of being viewed as rude to say no to some of the more ridiculous requests.

 

[Whis Khalifa]

The question is why do you treat the men and women differently?

You showed them your gentleman side and they're exploiting that in order to take advantage of you.

But they're probably attractive and flirting and think it's a boost to your ego to feel needed so what's the harm?

The problem is that it's too late for you to start treating them any differently...

My suggestion?

Fake a back injury for about a month and wean them off of using you as the office mule. Matter of fact lean on them to show how much of a burden it is.

 

[The Lonious Monk]

I treat women like I treat men. I give them respect. If they need help and I can help, I try to help. If they are old, disabled, or pregnant in the case of women, I do what I can to assist. That's about it. There isn't really anything unique I do for women specifically, especially since I've been married.

 

[Lea]

The question is why do you treat the men and women differently?

You showed them your gentleman side and they're exploiting that in order to take advantage of you.

But they're probably attractive and flirting and think it's a boost to your ego to feel needed so what's the harm?

The problem is that it's too late for you to start treating them any differently...

My suggestion?

Fake a back injury for about a month and wean them off of using you as the office mule. Matter of fact lean on them to show how much of a burden it is.

This is both GOAT and funny as hell.

 

[GOAT]

It depends. Its kinda like at the grocery store i will help out an old lady reach something off the top shelf no problem have a nice day.

But if u ask me for help reaching something becuz u are fat and in a motorized cart due to laziness u on your own.

I draw my line at lifting about 60lbs of dead weight or a loveseat w furniture. I dont do mattresses or stairs

 

[Loquacious]

I’m so independent it’s stupid. I’ll break my back getting shit up the stairs before I ask anybody for help.

I need to start asking for help because it’s not worth the injuries.

 

[DOS_patos]

I hate entitled people.

But I get what you saying.
I stopped being the nice guy. Shit gets you no where.
Once you need someone.....them same entitled people get bush busy busy

 

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The question is why do you treat the men and women differently?

You showed them your gentleman side and they're exploiting that in order to take advantage of you.

But they're probably attractive and flirting and think it's a boost to your ego to feel needed so what's the harm?

The problem is that it's too late for you to start treating them any differently...

My suggestion?

Fake a back injury for about a month and wean them off of using you as the office mule. Matter of fact lean on them to show how much of a burden it is.

I like this, but there's lots of assumptions here....

FIRST OFF....most of these hoes aint young OR cute lmao.....it aint that kinda thing at all....we may not even have this thread if that was the case lol

but true enough, I've always had that soft spot and just looked out for women around me with little to no question

aint no too late tho, i been having ups and downs for years with this....they just forget and reset, daily...ya'll see the tags.....30 days

bout to put my rude shoes on baby

yo bitch......

 

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It depends. Its kinda like at the grocery store i will help out an old lady reach something off the top shelf no problem have a nice day.

But if u ask me for help reaching something becuz u are fat and in a motorized cart due to laziness u on your own.

I draw my line at lifting about 60lbs of dead weight or a loveseat w furniture. I dont do mattresses or stairs

aight man you just hate fat people lmao

not cool, guy

 

[Suckio Andretti]

I treat mean and women the same as far as helping out

If you need help, I'm fine with that

In your case you trying to figure out why bitches expect you to bring shit to them. That's entitlement

You'll do it but you'll talk shit before and after lol

 

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I treat mean and women the same as far as helping out

If you need help, I'm fine with that

In your case you trying to figure out why bitches expect you to bring shit to them. That's entitlement

You'll do it but you'll talk shit before and after lol

ay I did that shit this morning but I had an attitude lmfao

"fuck yuu mean if I need you to, lucky I had to piss anyway"

 

[VIBE]

Fellas, do you have a certain point where you stop "helping" and "serving" and "being nice" to the women around you just for the sake of them being women? Serious question.

Not about simping or being friend zoned at all.

I live with all women and work with mostly women. Im a nice guy and all, and I try to keep chivalry alive out here but

for real, Jack.


Aint no trophies, cookies, pats on the back, keep up the good work, none of the sort.

Any and every time there's some sort of manual labor to be done, no matter how small or menial....its the batty eyed :

"you not gone help me?"

"oh I just cant, can you grab this?"

"im leaving early can you carry something to my car for me?"

An actual example from my office this morning: A man and a woman in different departments need a document from me

**Man: ay you got that sheet?
Me: yeah
Man: cool im on my way

*Woman: hey do you have that sheet?
Me: yeah
Woman: (10 mins goes by)
Woman: I can come get it if you need me to

LOOK BISH!!!! I dont NEED anything thats just the right fucking thing to do when YOU need something. GO GET IT!! but nah lol.....it was absolutely expected that I deliver the shit, and on the days when im not having it, its like "you ok?" "wake up on the wrong side?"

This is every day, all the time.


Fellas, where's your line?

Ladies, why ya'll do this shit?

I would’ve legit hit her w “alright see u in a few..”

 

[Remy_LeGermz]

I show women no special consideration until they show inferiority. Then it has to be a level of inferiority, too much and I'm likely not to deal with them at all. Too little, and "niggaz get shot errday b".

This is immediate and the rating does not change based on what she does, unless it's something astonishingly surprising to what I've come to know her as.

 

[Soul_Rattler]

I think you should always help women if you want to be a real man. Whenever you see a woman in need, you should drop everything you are doing to lift, carry, push, or pull her burdens. Believe all women, support all women, and pay all women. They are queens and goddesses who have enough on their plate birthing the future of humanity. The least you can do is do the physical labor. Thank her. Congratulate her. Praise her for being the backbone of civilization.

 

[Remy_LeGermz]

I think you should always help women if you want to be a real man. Whenever you see a woman in need, you should drop everything you are doing to lift, carry, push, or pull her burdens. Believe all women, support all women, and pay all women. They are queens and goddesses who have enough on their plate birthing the future of humanity. The least you can do is do the physical labor. Thank her. Congratulate her. Praise her for being the backbone of civilization.

that shit crazy

 

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I think you should always help women if you want to be a real man. Whenever you see a woman in need, you should drop everything you are doing to lift, carry, push, or pull her burdens. Believe all women, support all women, and pay all women. They are queens and goddesses who have enough on their plate birthing the future of humanity. The least you can do is do the physical labor. Thank her. Congratulate her. Praise her for being the backbone of civilization.

 

[Chicity]

I think you should always help women if you want to be a real man. Whenever you see a woman in need, you should drop everything you are doing to lift, carry, push, or pull her burdens. Believe all women, support all women, and pay all women. They are queens and goddesses who have enough on their plate birthing the future of humanity. The least you can do is do the physical labor. Thank her. Congratulate her. Praise her for being the backbone of civilization.

This, without the sarcasm


I take great pleasure in helping women, children, and those that require my assistance

I also stand at urinal with pride so what do I know

 

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ya'll aint wrong, which is why im in this predicament

there's just extreme cases.....it probably wouldnt even be so bad if I didnt spoil the shit outta my girls at home

I didnt smoke this morning either, tryna bring my tolerance down

 

[Banginscrew901]

I think you should always help women if you want to be a real man. Whenever you see a woman in need, you should drop everything you are doing to lift, carry, push, or pull her burdens. Believe all women, support all women, and pay all women. They are queens and goddesses who have enough on their plate birthing the future of humanity. The least you can do is do the physical labor. Thank her. Congratulate her. Praise her for being the backbone of civilization.