it can’t be just sex alone.
I always say there's levels to it.
There's freaky: trying different positions...lil toys here & there...foreplay
Then there's HBO Real Sex freaky: being bucked naked wit a saddle on your back...encasing yourself in a runner suit...all things dominatrix...weekend orgies...attending erotic poetry...fuccin in public places...dressin up as furry animals...human size dolls...etc.
I thinks it's more of the initiator in some kinky stuff. Freaky ppl are creative in the bedroom and down for a lot more than the average person.
This chick once told me I wasn't a real freak cause I would not let her lick my ass.
No inhibitions
I like fucking my wife's feet. Some might think that's some freaky shit, others might think that shit is weak. It's really subjective but the baseline of freakiness can't be any regular shit.
I got a woman who's down for all the freak nasty shit I enjoy, it's so refreshing and she can handle the pipe too.