What are some classic examples of a person trying to neg you?

[PlantainChips]

I had a random stranger try to neg me today. It was really weird.

 

[ImaInfluenza]

What is “neg you” ?

 

[PlantainChips]

What is “neg you” ?

https://www.healthline.com/health/mental-health/negging#regret

 

[Disanthrope]

Generally the way white people speak to non white people

 

[DOS_patos]

So micro aggressions

 

[TTBF]

I get people trying to be slick at the club from time to time but I also fight niggas.

 

[PlantainChips]

Generally the way white people speak to non white people

True. I once had a white guy say to me, “Wow! You’re actually quite educated.”

 

[PlantainChips]

I get people trying to be slick at the club from time to time but I also fight niggas.

You mean other men trying to neg you?

 

[Disanthrope]

True. I once had a white guy say to me, “Wow! You’re actually quite educated.”

...what did you say back?

 

[PlantainChips]

...what did you say back?

It was during a job interview so I didn’t say anything. I didn’t even recognise it at the time cos I was busy trying to get the job. Then he spent the rest of the interview trying to tell me how well travelled and rich he is

 

[TTBF]

It was during a job interview so I didn’t say anything. I didn’t even recognise it at the time cos I was busy trying to get the job. Then he spent the rest of the interview trying to tell me how well travelled and rich he is

Nigga was tryna smash.

 

[TTBF]

You laughing but...

 

[PlantainChips]

So micro aggressions

Yes but with a deliberate aim to lower your self esteem so they can get something good (i.e. you) for nothing.

 

[PlantainChips]

You laughing but...

I didn’t get the job, but I’m used to not getting the job when men interview me.

 

[Disanthrope]

It was during a job interview so I didn’t say anything. I didn’t even recognise it at the time cos I was busy trying to get the job. Then he spent the rest of the interview trying to tell me how well travelled and rich he is

Coo coo... thats never a compliment. Other than your boss you better say sumn slick back. Or ask them when's the last time you said somebody white was educated/articulate and watch em tapdance...

 

[Disanthrope]

So micro aggressions

Gaslighting, condescensions...

 

[PlantainChips]

Coo coo... thats never a compliment. Other than your boss you better say sumn slick back. Or ask them when's the last time you said somebody white was articulate and watch em tapdance...

I didn’t say it was a compliment. I said it took a few days for me to register it was racist cos I had a lot on my mind. I believe he started bigging himself up cos he felt threatened by my accomplishments. I never said he wanted to smash. Someone else did

 

[TTBF]

I didn’t get the job, but I’m used to not getting the job when men interview me.

You got an army background or something that would otherwise intimidate them?

 

[PlantainChips]

You got an army background or something that would otherwise intimidate them?

lmao.

 

[Golan]

I didn’t get the job, but I’m used to not getting the job when men interview me.

It's Friday.