JohnSmithCAN
Active Member
Just about less of two hours ago, I found myself getting into a little argument with one of those "influencers" online.
Petite. Slender. Of Romanian stock, fluent in English, quite attractive... a social media "model" who likes giving fashion & lingerie tutorial videos on her Youtube channel, being beleagued and cheered at by heaps of (rather predominantly male) fans on a regular basis because her sense of fashion, refinement and most peculiarily "exotically" rapturing physical cuteness.
Lately, she published a video updated three days earlier. She appeared here the same she poses on her video catalogue and social media accounts: neatly lithe (even too neat) , leggy like a sylph with none a single ounce of pudge onto her frame.
It immediatly ticked me off: she posted a selfie on her YT storytime the day prior her latest video update. The kind of selfie she obviously didn't wanted to share elsewhere and that she even swiftly removed on her IG storytime. She was by no means skinny-fat in there, but you could tell she has put a few pounds-- which, for a woman if her stature, meant the world already. Her face was subtlely less taut, her arms less gaunt and the bodycon dress she sported a little less roomy on her skin: but the most noticeable change was brought by her trademark sex appeal front e.g. her legs that chubbed up just enough to form smallish rolls of compressed flesh around the lower end of her skirt. Quite normal for the average thin chick, but a whole new thing about her (again, she was bordeline skinny) .
I made a remark about it, question to see what would come from the bait... bingo. After just a few minutes, my phone buzzes: I could sense by her way of typing she was profoundly grossed out and angry. She thought I was making a remark about the newest stories about her posing recently into her outdoors skiing puffy parka coat and trousers (trousers that used to snug far less onto her thighs fyi, last year ago... ??) . I politely apologized while correcting her by pointing at the older story selfie.
Silent radio.
I deduced she might have removed my comment and the rest of its section. So, I made a quick cross-search from my web browser et voilà, they were gone.
I chuckled internally. If my predictions were exact, she did it. I checked back her YT storytime... the older selfie was gone too.
All of these tricks and fights for some minor, innocuous gain.
:smh:
I wasn't sizeshaming her at all. My intent was to discern why she exerted so much effort to conceal... what exactly?? A slightly amped-up iteration of her trademark business card???
And she's not alone in this. Plenty of social media "influencers" and everywomen are doing this since a decade already, especially since the onset of the global quarantine early this year. Not just a barely innocent chub-up down the waist, but sometimes 20, 50 even 100+ pounds airbrushed, cropped, trimmed down after a few clicks on a professional media-doctoring app.
People here knows I am the opposite of being fatphobic. However, I can't stand the idea that someone may casually and repeatedly lie on your face over such a superficial detail like their physical appareance. I cannot trust that type: what else would you be bent to conceal from me if you're able to make me believe first you're 20, 50, 100 pounds slimmer than you truly are and tries purposefully to gaslight me as the villain, to victimize yourself about something you damn know you have or are, felt for some odd reason the need to left a lead about what you truly look behind the lens of cameras and having the audacity to bite at anyone who followed the very lead???
Based upon my dating experience, no woman who conceals her weight in such an efficient manner are revealed themselves being emotionally fit, trustworthy and reasonable. They have all in common besides being geniunely well-attractive a duplicitous character, both Borderline personality & narsisstic traits, a tendency to prey or stalk over men they cannot properly tame or simp down as well as an unsatiable crave for more attention, control and power behind their moderable veneer... that was often physically expressed through their wax-and-waning eating disorder issues.
Am I the only one to get pissed by the profileration of this social phenomenon?
Petite. Slender. Of Romanian stock, fluent in English, quite attractive... a social media "model" who likes giving fashion & lingerie tutorial videos on her Youtube channel, being beleagued and cheered at by heaps of (rather predominantly male) fans on a regular basis because her sense of fashion, refinement and most peculiarily "exotically" rapturing physical cuteness.
Lately, she published a video updated three days earlier. She appeared here the same she poses on her video catalogue and social media accounts: neatly lithe (even too neat) , leggy like a sylph with none a single ounce of pudge onto her frame.
It immediatly ticked me off: she posted a selfie on her YT storytime the day prior her latest video update. The kind of selfie she obviously didn't wanted to share elsewhere and that she even swiftly removed on her IG storytime. She was by no means skinny-fat in there, but you could tell she has put a few pounds-- which, for a woman if her stature, meant the world already. Her face was subtlely less taut, her arms less gaunt and the bodycon dress she sported a little less roomy on her skin: but the most noticeable change was brought by her trademark sex appeal front e.g. her legs that chubbed up just enough to form smallish rolls of compressed flesh around the lower end of her skirt. Quite normal for the average thin chick, but a whole new thing about her (again, she was bordeline skinny) .
I made a remark about it, question to see what would come from the bait... bingo. After just a few minutes, my phone buzzes: I could sense by her way of typing she was profoundly grossed out and angry. She thought I was making a remark about the newest stories about her posing recently into her outdoors skiing puffy parka coat and trousers (trousers that used to snug far less onto her thighs fyi, last year ago... ??) . I politely apologized while correcting her by pointing at the older story selfie.
Silent radio.
I deduced she might have removed my comment and the rest of its section. So, I made a quick cross-search from my web browser et voilà, they were gone.
I chuckled internally. If my predictions were exact, she did it. I checked back her YT storytime... the older selfie was gone too.
All of these tricks and fights for some minor, innocuous gain.
:smh:
I wasn't sizeshaming her at all. My intent was to discern why she exerted so much effort to conceal... what exactly?? A slightly amped-up iteration of her trademark business card???
And she's not alone in this. Plenty of social media "influencers" and everywomen are doing this since a decade already, especially since the onset of the global quarantine early this year. Not just a barely innocent chub-up down the waist, but sometimes 20, 50 even 100+ pounds airbrushed, cropped, trimmed down after a few clicks on a professional media-doctoring app.
People here knows I am the opposite of being fatphobic. However, I can't stand the idea that someone may casually and repeatedly lie on your face over such a superficial detail like their physical appareance. I cannot trust that type: what else would you be bent to conceal from me if you're able to make me believe first you're 20, 50, 100 pounds slimmer than you truly are and tries purposefully to gaslight me as the villain, to victimize yourself about something you damn know you have or are, felt for some odd reason the need to left a lead about what you truly look behind the lens of cameras and having the audacity to bite at anyone who followed the very lead???
Based upon my dating experience, no woman who conceals her weight in such an efficient manner are revealed themselves being emotionally fit, trustworthy and reasonable. They have all in common besides being geniunely well-attractive a duplicitous character, both Borderline personality & narsisstic traits, a tendency to prey or stalk over men they cannot properly tame or simp down as well as an unsatiable crave for more attention, control and power behind their moderable veneer... that was often physically expressed through their wax-and-waning eating disorder issues.
Am I the only one to get pissed by the profileration of this social phenomenon?
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