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What are some recent or longtime faults or weaknesses you personally know or people have told you need to change about yourself?

Any interesting stories leading up to this discovery?

If you haven't fixed them, then why not?

Are you guys man or woman enough to participate in this thread?
 
@AP21, we know you received online grief plenty of times. Come in here.

People have told you about yourself plenty of times, but what do you think about yourself?
 
I have been Rastafari for a long time but my livity was so far off that people thought I just had locs. I started correcting that about 5 years ago or a little more and I am in a much better all around space.
 
Only thing I honestly thought I needed to change was my attitude when it comes to not getting shit my way.
People close to me have experienced my wrath and it was childish but I have changed a lot.

Now the attitude is mild. You just can't get your way all the time or can you?
 
I really don't know if I have any accurate faults at this moment.

I have been dealing with health issues on and off for a very longtime, so as a result, I developed some faults along the way.

As I am getting healthier, I am becoming more and more balanced across the board, so those faults are going away.

Over the last few years, I thought I have been too nice to some people to where they think they can talk slick to me.

In response, I told myself that I am going to an asshole in general from that point forward, but that vow never lasts too long.

Looking back at my life, I realized that I can really, really hurt someone if I put my mind to it.

Now, I look at my kindness as a way to prevent that from happening, so I am now at peace with myself in that regard.

So, no concrete faults at this moment.
 
NoOneImportant said:
@AP21, we know you received online grief plenty of times. Come in here.

People have told you about yourself plenty of times, but what do you think about yourself?
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I think we have a thread like this already

But to participate, I think there is this misconception that I'm a know it all. I don't like people to be wrong and by that, if you still believe something to be true despite mounds of evidence that refutes your pov, why do you still cling to those ideas?

Or if someone says something like "oysters are a required taste" and I say "you mean acquired", then they get pissed at me. What did I do? You were wrong.

I just got to a point where I don't say anything

Or this is this big misconception that I'm not confrontational or a push over. There are just certain things I refuse to give energy to. No, I don't like to argue because it's dumb imo. If we can't talk with one another with respect then you need to find a nigga that wants to die of a heart attack before 40 due to stress because I ain't the one.

Lastly, I'm a cool ass dude both online and offline and I've made mistakes and have admitted when I was wrong and have apologized.
 
AP21 said:
Or this is this big misconception that I'm not confrontational or a push over. There are just certain things I refuse to give energy to. No, I don't like to argue because it's dumb imo. If we can't talk with one another with respect then you need to find a nigga that wants to die of a heart attack before 40 due to stress because I ain't the one.
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stress is something I need to make time to address. every time I see an article saying stress can kill your body as well as your mind, I fear for how long Ima be around.
 
BNE said:
stress is something I need to make time to address. every time I see an article saying stress can kill your body as well as your mind, I fear for how long Ima be around.
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I'll still a work in progress. Working out REALLY helps, even if it's for 45 min or so. As a matter of fact, I'm going see if this spot I'm staying in tonight has a fitness center. It's leg day and I brought my jump rope
 
AP21 said:
I'll still a work in progress. Working out REALLY helps, even if it's for 45 min or so. As a matter of fact, I'm going see if this spot I'm staying in tonight has a fitness center. It's leg day and I brought my jump rope
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gonna do squats. hopefully soon, the answer to "DSGDA?" will be yes!
 
My biggest fault is that I'm the biggest to procrastinator I know. I really hate that about myself. Been working on it for years
 
BNE said:
stress is something I need to make time to address. every time I see an article saying stress can kill your body as well as your mind, I fear for how long Ima be around.
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Stress is just fear of an outcome. Treat it as fear and it will be easier to deal with.
 
i think i'm way too hard on myself, cuz i have a whole list of faults...

and i can't be that bad....
 
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