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Bullied student killed herself after school staff didn't intervene: Lawsuit
A New York City high schooler who took her own life after she was allegedly bullied and forced to perform sexual acts on other students had experienced the abuse since she began attending the school, and school staff knew about it but did not intervene, a lawsuit by the girl's parents alleges.

Mya Vizcarrondo-Rios jumped 34 stories from the roof of her apartment building with her backpack still on shortly after 2 p.m. on Feb. 28, 2018, and was pronounced dead at the hospital about an hour later. She was 15 years old.

Employees at Harry S. Truman High School in the Bronx, New York, knew that Mya was being bullied "almost daily" and that she had developed "severe emotional pain and depression" as a result of the bullying, which began shortly after she started attending the high school in September 2017 and lasted five months until her death, the lawsuit filed in Bronx Supreme Court alleges.

The lawsuit goes on to say that the school's staff did not intervene and failed to notify Mya's parents, Heribierto Rios and Nelly Vizcarrondo.

The lawsuit accuses the City of New York and the New York City Department of Education of causing Mya’s death due to “their negligence, carelessness, recklessness and unlawfulness.”



“The tragic circumstances surrounding my client's death could have been prevented,” said John Scola, the parents’ attorney, in a statement. “We hope that this case will cause the New York City Department of Education to reevaluate their policies and properly train their employees on issues related to bullying so that no student feels so hopeless they believe suicide is the answer."


Mya was an honor student who had perfect attendance prior to the bullying, the lawsuit states, but she began missing school beginning in late 2017 as a result of the bullying, which included body shaming, harassment and physical and verbal abuse.

Her declining attendance led to a meeting between Mya's parents and her guidance counselor on Jan. 24, 2018. During the meeting, the lawsuit says the school's principal, Keri Alfano, and the school's dean — both of whom were also at the meeting — told Mya's parents that she would need to sign in for each class to ensure she was attending.

The lawsuit says that despite employees at the school having "actual" and "constructive notice" of the abuse, they did not inform Mya's parents about the bullying in that meeting.

Mya met with her guidance counselor and Alfano on separate occasions to talk about the bullying, according to the lawsuit, which says that the guidance counselor once told Mya she would investigate but that she never did. The meeting with Alfano, meanwhile, ended with Mya being “ignored and simply sent back to class without any intervention by the school,” according to the lawsuit, which says Mya’s parents were not told about either meeting.

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Harry S. Truman High School in the Bronx, N.Y.
On Feb. 27, 2018, the lawsuit says Mya's guidance counselor appeared at Mya's gym class after one of Mya's friends told her about problems Mya was having.

The guidance counselor "assessed [Mya] for any signs of physical or verbal abuse," according to the lawsuit, which says that "[f]ollowing this conversation...the guidance counselor, despite saying she would do so in [Mya's] guidance review card, again failed to notify [Mya's parents] that [Mya] was having problems at school so they could lookout for any harm [Mya] could cause herself including but in no way limited to acting on suicidal ideations."

After participating in a show in the school's auditorium the next morning, Mya was taken into the back of the unlocked and unsupervised auditorium by two boys and "forced to perform a sex act on the two students," the lawsuit says, adding that Mya was then made fun of by students in the school.

Mya then left school early "without a note or reason to do so," the lawsuit states, adding that she went home unnoticed and without teachers searching for her.


Just hours later, Mya jumped from the roof of her apartment building, the lawsuit says.

The guidance counselor was later fired by the Department of Education for “the improper handling of the bullying of” Mya, according to the lawsuit.

The lawsuit claims that the school was negligent in providing safety to Mya while she was under the school's care and that because the school staff did not notice that Mya had left, the dean and principal had "misrepresented" the requirement that Mya would have to sign in.

"If the representation that [Mya] was required to sign in at each class were true, her absence would have triggered a notification of the parents or a search as to [Mya's] whereabouts and prevented her death," the lawsuit says.

“This was a tragic loss, and students deserve safe and supportive school environments,” said Doug Cohen, a spokesperson for the New York City Department of Education, in a statement. “We recognize the deep impact bullying can have, and schools are required to immediately investigate and address any allegation. We’ll continue to invest in anti-bullying and safe schools initiatives.”
 
I'm blessed to not raise kids who bullied.

As fucked up as it may sound, and trust I'm not proud of them being as aggressive as they are, but I do find comfort in knowing my kids would never let someone just do shit to them.

My kids fight... Hard.

My son goes to a tough school, and he is by far not the meanest kid there. He's not a "good" kid either. But he's not mean. He's not nasty. He does have a temper. And he does fight a lot. But enough teachers and administrators have confided with me that he is not a bully, and more times than not he gets in trouble for his response for kids fucking with him.


And my daughter is already showing plenty signs that she goes harder than him. All her teachers even now say she's a natural leader, and the kids just don't know any better than to listen to her because she's the one telling everybody what to do.

But they also said she's not mean or a bully... She's just very confident.

So no knock to parents of kids who get bullied, but the reality is our mindset is just different.

When your kid gets picked on, you often feel very defensive and your response to stuff like this is gonna be different than a parent of a kid who never gets bullied.

Also I'm very very involved in my kids heads. I wanna know what's going on, who their friends are all that.

Again I hate to judge too much, but I just can't imagine a scenario where this is allowed to go on. I just pay too much attention.

My daughter has a big brother who has no issues getting into scraps ...I can't even phantom some boys pushing to in my daughter and my kids don't handle it immediately.

They only 7 & 2 at the moment, but it's clear who they are personality wise.

At the end of the day, I don't feel I'm raising victims
 
You can't protect your kids if you not in their lives
 
You cant really comment on this story yet, because all the "facts" you can draw from it, are from the parents of the victim in their lawsuit. All we know for a fact is this lil girl came from school and jumped off a building killing herself.

IMO for a lil kid to just easily kill them self, there has to be home problems. Because at a young age, unless you have issues at home who doesnt tell their parent if they have issues at school especially this day and age. Most parents except the school to damn near raise their kid.
 
sad

there's no type of retaliation that would even make sense or do anything for you

i dont know enough about the family or her home life to comment on what could have or should have been done there

the school/school board/state is absolutely responsible for everything that happened on campus, and they should pay
 
Fire the adults who knew; revoke their right to ever work in a school again. Anyone w knowledge should have to service some type of community service and pay up $$ in a lawsuit.

As for the kids involved, I don’t think prison time would solve anything. They need to be mentored. Church the kids. Have them service their community. Have them interact w teens or adults who went through situations like this and how it truly affects their daily lives.

As for the parents, it’s difficult the say... I know we jump to conclusions and think the parents may have been bad bc the child didn’t go directly to them, but some kids are just like that.

My daughter wallows in her misery and instead of talking to us, she allowed social media to shape her world and allowed her thoughts to consume her. She said she doesn’t like to talk about her feelings to anyone. But she did, she did so through text to friends, but only in texts. Her friends said she’s not like that in person. Then she said adults don’t understand. So we took steps in her life to fix what she says was wrong w her... the #1 thing that feeds into this is social media and smart devices.

So, we eliminated social media, we eliminated her phone and we started her in Youth at the church. Her insecurities and issues have started fading. She brought her grades up. There’s still work to be done w her but she’s improving.

So it’s difficult to state it’s always the parents. I know that my wife and I are very involved w our kids and their friends. We monitor their social, which is just Instagram. We monitor internet history. We speak w their counselors if necessary to resolve issues in school. Not bullying issues, just things like programs and what not. Some kids think parents are overbearing. My daughters texts, which she didn’t know we were receiving, said she didn’t want to talk to us bc we wouldn’t understand, that she could handle it on her own and even if we did understand, there was nothing we could do about how she felt.

Kids think they know everything. I can guarantee that girl had immediate regrets as she fell to her death, probably afterwards too, seeing that she died a day later and not immediately. Sexual assault is horrible but it could’ve been resolved. The answer to kill yourself now has passed the pain and confusion on to the parents, the process continues and has no resolution now. It’s sad. I feel sorry for her and her parents.
 
So yall saying fire the adults right because "they knew"

What about the parents? They should know


Lock up all the parents from the victim to the perps.



I just dont understand how ppl dont know whats going in their child life.
 
Fire the adults who knew; revoke their right to ever work in a school again. Anyone w knowledge should have to service some type of community service and pay up $$ in a lawsuit.

As for the kids involved, I don’t think prison time would solve anything. They need to be mentored. Church the kids. Have them service their community. Have them interact w teens or adults who went through situations like this and how it truly affects their daily lives.

As for the parents, it’s difficult the say... I know we jump to conclusions and think the parents may have been bad bc the child didn’t go directly to them, but some kids are just like that.

My daughter wallows in her misery and instead of talking to us, she allowed social media to shape her world and allowed her thoughts to consume her. She said she doesn’t like to talk about her feelings to anyone. But she did, she did so through text to friends, but only in texts. Her friends said she’s not like that in person. Then she said adults don’t understand. So we took steps in her life to fix what she says was wrong w her... the #1 thing that feeds into this is social media and smart devices.

So, we eliminated social media, we eliminated her phone and we started her in Youth at the church. Her insecurities and issues have started fading. She brought her grades up. There’s still work to be done w her but she’s improving.

So it’s difficult to state it’s always the parents. I know that my wife and I are very involved w our kids and their friends. We monitor their social, which is just Instagram. We monitor internet history. We speak w their counselors if necessary to resolve issues in school. Not bullying issues, just things like programs and what not. Some kids think parents are overbearing. My daughters texts, which she didn’t know we were receiving, said she didn’t want to talk to us bc we wouldn’t understand, that she could handle it on her own and even if we did understand, there was nothing we could do about how she felt.

Kids think they know everything. I can guarantee that girl had immediate regrets as she fell to her death, probably afterwards too, seeing that she died a day later and not immediately. Sexual assault is horrible but it could’ve been resolved. The answer to kill yourself now has passed the pain and confusion on to the parents, the process continues and has no resolution now. It’s sad. I feel sorry for her and her parents.
Well said
 
So yall saying fire the adults right because "they knew"

What about the parents? They should know


Lock up all the parents from the victim to the perps.



I just dont understand how ppl dont know whats going in their child life.
Revisit this post in 10yrs

Or read Vibe post
 
Revisit this post in 10yrs

Or read Vibe post


So whos more responsible for their kid?

And to say teachers know is a stretch. Kids are good at putting on a front like everything is good and probably thought she was fast. Not a damn victim
 
So yall saying fire the adults right because "they knew"

What about the parents? They should know


Lock up all the parents from the victim to the perps.



I just dont understand how ppl dont know whats going in their child life.

We all wear masks. We are all always “doing well” in life, even when we aren’t. Kids are no different. They suck at communicating their feelings. It has to be pried from them. We always accept our kids are doing well because we think that we would know otherwise.

Truthfully, if it wasn’t for my daughter having the phone and us receiving texts, we wouldn’t have known anything. She wasn’t expressing this anywhere else besides those texts. Everyday we texted in the mornings, positivity and when she arrived and when she was leaving school, so that we knew she was safe throughout the day.

Smiles can be fake. How many times have we known someone in which we later say, “had no clue they were going through that, wish they would’ve talked to me..” there’s a few, be it family members or friends.

Look at these shooters, their family members and friends have no clue they’re having hateful and murderous thoughts and feelings, yet they share their true feelings w strangers on a message board about what their actions will bring in the future.

We all wear masks.
 
Kids definitely block parents out, but I rather my kids hate my guts for being too nosey, than they jump off a building cuz I was giving them their space or tough love
 
So whos more responsible for their kid?

And to say teachers know is a stretch. Kids are good at putting on a front like everything is good and probably thought she was fast. Not a damn victim
This a separate question b but as it pertains to this situation, the school bears most of the responsibility.

See Vibe subsequent post
 
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