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NeighborhoodNomad

NeighborhoodNomad

the marathon continues........
In @Reesey 's thread about open/free relationships we briefly spoke on how we're not being brutally honest with ourselves or our loved ones.

The only way we can ever truly elevate and grow and be the greatest version of ourselves is if we're honest with ourselves and with others. Sometimes that honesty is brutal but it's necessary.

This is a thread for us to be brutally honest about anything, whether it's another poster, a personal perspective of life or even yourself.

Now fuck feelings, let's be brutally honest...

No anonymous posts please.
 
so why not just name this "dear ABW poster" in the first place?
 
MeanieJosh said:
This is not a real nigga thread, real niggas would just say what's on their minds whenever, wherever, and however they want

Lock this shit
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I kinda love this man in a fam type of way tho... Don't Judge Me... Lol
 
I was going to make a thread similar to this one and may still do so But to participate.........

The truth is not something people want hear. In all honesty most people can't handle the truth because the finger you point at them is even more pointing back at you. We can mask the truth to easily with opinions and that usually clouds the exact truth you're so called trying to give someone.

Truthfully it's easy to sit behind a screen and say ayo soand so you're not good at what you do or Ayo so and so your relationship is a sham BUT when it comes down to what I call the man in the mirror test. That's when the real "truth" comes into play because would you tell yourself what you told others?
 
I tell friends of mine that are in relationships that are shacking and mad day has come. You have 48 to 72 hours to sleep on my couch if your s/o has put you out. After that time has elapsed. It's time to put plan b into motion. Feel bad about your situation you and yo girl or dude going through, but yo ass can't stay here and suck up my air. I need to do better wit this, I think I may extend the time to lay on my couch to a week. Heated arguments can be hard to get over.


Went to one of my homegirl's son's (10 years old) basketball game, dude had like 5 turnovers, shot 3 air balls and had like 4 fouls. We got back in the car and headed somewhere and he asked me how he played. I told him, he stunk up the court and if I was the coach, I wouldn't have put yo ass back in the game. His mama was like "no you didn't son, you played very well" I kindly said to her "we talkin bout yo son right and his performance right? what game yo ass was looking at, he played terrible"

I should have said, aye lil bud, grab a ball and let me show you a move or two when we get to a court.

Seems like the older I get, the more honest/asshole-ish I'm becoming. Help family. I use to not be this way.
 
Knock_Twice said:
I tell friends of mine that are in relationships that are shacking and mad day has come. You have 48 to 72 hours to sleep on my couch if your s/o has put you out. After that time has elapsed. It's time to put plan b into motion. Feel bad about your situation you and yo girl or dude going through, but yo ass can't stay here and suck up my air. I need to do better wit this, I think I may extend the time to lay on my couch to a week. Heated arguments can be hard to get over.


Went to one of my homegirl's son's (10 years old) basketball game, dude had like 5 turnovers, shot 3 air balls and had like 4 fouls. We got back in the car and headed somewhere and he asked me how he played. I told him, he stunk up the court and if I was the coach, I wouldn't have put yo ass back in the game. His mama was like "no you didn't son, you played very well" I kindly said to her "we talkin bout yo son right and his performance right? what game yo ass was looking at"

I should have said, aye lil bud, grab a ball and let me show you a move or two when we get to a court.

Seems like the older I get, the more honest/asshole-ish I'm becoming. Help family. I use to not be this way.
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i might be wrong, but i thought the premise of this thread was to tell other ABW members if you have issues with them

if im wrong, then thats what the thread needs to be about anyway
 
Simp said:
i might be wrong, but i thought the premise of this thread was to tell other ABW members if you have issues with them

if im wrong, then thats what the thread needs to be about anyway
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I think he mentioned about a poster or perspective of life or yourself.

Delete my post if I didn't follow the rules.
 
Knock_Twice said:
I think he mentioned about a poster or perspective of life or yourself.

Delete my post if I didn't follow the rules.
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you right

im bout to go and delete the part about personal perspective and keep the part about another poster

brb
 
BNE said:
u aint gonna let OP decide what the purpose of his thread is tho?
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c'mon trini...you should know me better than that

all the time we spend in the mod room together, and you think i would do some corny shit like that?
 

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Simp said:
c'mon trini...you should know me better than that

all the time we spend in the mod room together, and you think i would do some corny shit like that?
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tbh sarcasm is goin over my head lately. second time this week.
 
I thought he was just S ayin to be brutally honest about whateva. Not just about specific posters
 
Josh has a drug problem. And it seems that I'm the only person truly concerned.


It feels like the rest of yall are okay with whatever has made him a complete different person on here.

I've been silently judging every person that has been encouraging this obviously destructive behavior.

YOu guys may not be the worst kind of people quite yet.......

but yall have the worst tendencies
 
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