DOS_patos
Unverified Legion of Trill member
i was thinking the other day when i saw a couple arguing.
dude seemed like he was mad as hell....yelling and shit in the street.
chick was just ass mad, telling him f him.
it got me to wondering....
most of us can fight and argue for long period of time. we use alot of energy doing it.
while i understand at the moment we are upset and need to get shit off our chest and negative things set us off....but does the same energy go into celebrating or thanking our mates when things are going good?
Or do we look at it like its whats supposed to happen? so a simple thank you is ok enough. because..."what more do you want me to do, i said thank you?" is the attitude alot of people take on.
is it because we overlook it because we feel we deserve it?
why are we not putting the same energy into when our mates do something right?
is it becasue we are conditioned a certain way?
i once told a story of an ex who after i did a whole big thing for valentines day...she said she was going to give it to me good. so what was i getting all the other times?
so anyway....how much energy do you put into being thankful for your mate vs when you cant stand they ass?
do you keep the same energy both ways or can it only go one way?
lets talk about it.
dude seemed like he was mad as hell....yelling and shit in the street.
chick was just ass mad, telling him f him.
it got me to wondering....
most of us can fight and argue for long period of time. we use alot of energy doing it.
while i understand at the moment we are upset and need to get shit off our chest and negative things set us off....but does the same energy go into celebrating or thanking our mates when things are going good?
Or do we look at it like its whats supposed to happen? so a simple thank you is ok enough. because..."what more do you want me to do, i said thank you?" is the attitude alot of people take on.
is it because we overlook it because we feel we deserve it?
why are we not putting the same energy into when our mates do something right?
is it becasue we are conditioned a certain way?
i once told a story of an ex who after i did a whole big thing for valentines day...she said she was going to give it to me good. so what was i getting all the other times?
so anyway....how much energy do you put into being thankful for your mate vs when you cant stand they ass?
do you keep the same energy both ways or can it only go one way?
lets talk about it.