Whose the village for your child(ren)?
What roles do they play?
What roles do they play?
It takes a village to raise a child.
- Thread starter Loquacious
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Dont drank out my drank, foo
i didnt always believe in this, just looking at different people's circumstances
but having the extra "family" now I see where it absolutely benefits the children
mother in law - "big mama" status now.....they listen to her before they listen to us....she's got the experience and older, wiser influence....she feeds them better then I could ask for or do myself....already putting a good work ethic in them....huge role
church - its new for all of us but its taking its effects....they're definitely listening
my sister(s) - my blood sister (for me) pretty much serves as the example of a black woman for them....plus she gets to be the auntie that spoils them in the summer and sends them back home. the wife's sister has her own bond with them and is more so the fun time aunt they get the girl time and artsy shit with
not so much now, but the teachers are going to play a much bigger role for them next year because they'll be in much smaller classes.....im sure we'll be getting real close
but having the extra "family" now I see where it absolutely benefits the children
mother in law - "big mama" status now.....they listen to her before they listen to us....she's got the experience and older, wiser influence....she feeds them better then I could ask for or do myself....already putting a good work ethic in them....huge role
church - its new for all of us but its taking its effects....they're definitely listening
my sister(s) - my blood sister (for me) pretty much serves as the example of a black woman for them....plus she gets to be the auntie that spoils them in the summer and sends them back home. the wife's sister has her own bond with them and is more so the fun time aunt they get the girl time and artsy shit with
not so much now, but the teachers are going to play a much bigger role for them next year because they'll be in much smaller classes.....im sure we'll be getting real close
All my threads good. FOH.
My sons village is myself, his dad and his dad’s gf (she seems to have his best interest at heart and has yet to miss any of his big events and games, I can dig it and my son loves her), my mom, my dad, my step dad and his wife, his dads mom and dad, my grandmother, my brothers, his uncles and aunts and teachers.
All of these people show my son nothing but love and support and so many people tell my son, there is no way he can say his family don’t love him. If I can’t make something, I can call ANYBODY and they are there for him even for something so small. As a mama, of course I have to be at every game and I expect dad to be. Now his games are our top priority’s on Saturdays. It’s crazy how the whole family put aside what they got going on to show face.
Oh and our dog.
All of these people show my son nothing but love and support and so many people tell my son, there is no way he can say his family don’t love him. If I can’t make something, I can call ANYBODY and they are there for him even for something so small. As a mama, of course I have to be at every game and I expect dad to be. Now his games are our top priority’s on Saturdays. It’s crazy how the whole family put aside what they got going on to show face.
Oh and our dog.
DOS_patos
Unverified Legion of Trill member
^^^^^what you really wanted to say^^^^^All my threads good. But not as good as your Dos.
you are the man. but what i really want to know is what that mouth do.
well thank you.
awww shucks, im married but ill keep you in mind.
You doing too much.
DOS_patos
Unverified Legion of Trill member
im having fun.