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Y'all do know communication is critical in healthy relationships right?
Nah, never heard that before.
Damn this changes everything
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Y'all do know communication is critical in healthy relationships right?
Y'all do know communication is critical in healthy relationships right?
That's understandable fam.of course but I don’t like prying I’m open with a lot of stuff but it needs to be natural I don’t like telling folks everything in the first month
Y'all do know communication is critical in healthy relationships right?
exactly what it says. I’mprivate about things and don’t like opening up unless I feel I can trust you that can cause issues
This one doesn't apply to me but there are women who feel the ground they walk on should be cherished solely for the fact they have a vagina and not because she does the same to her partnerThis is an interesting thread.
Just for clarification, when yall saying certain women expect something from you that they not willing to reciprocate, can yall give some examples?
This one doesn't apply to me but there are women who feel the ground they walk on should be cherished solely for the fact they have a vagina and not because she does the same to her partner
Hence the thread lolThat's a major character flaw. Never personally experienced it though. I feel like someone like that's true colors would show fairly quickly.
This shit. People need to quit looking on the outside to determine if their relationship is solid. It’s people out here legit unhappy but doing shit because they just settled.Get to know your mate and adjust your expectations accordingly. Nigga take your car to get gassed up, washed, detailed, but you on his case about some fucking flowers he don't send to your job because yo homegirl told you her s/o did but what she didn't tell you was he only did that shit to get back in her good graces after he fucked up
Same here bro. If you are asking for more from me than I am from you, that irks me and I feel like I am being taken advantage of.im trying to get back into therapy b
i dont think you can do it alone
but you spoke what i go through like verbatim. On one hand, im glad im not the only one, but at the same time, im like damn, should i be feeling this way in the first place?
He not here no more b lolTo the OP, great thread.
Hence the thread lol
But I'll give a more mild example. Females for the most part are always comparing their relationships to their friends relationships.
Ok, so yo homegirl finally got married but you don't know if that shit was for show or how they get down when the camera not snapping pics. Could be getting dogged out every which way to Sunday but at least she married right?
Every relationship should be based on it's own merit. So yo man don't deliver flowers to yo job like yo homegirl s/o but what about the other shit he does to show his appreciation and your validation in the relationship? But none of that matters because he didn't send flowers to your job?
Get to know your mate and adjust your expectations accordingly. Nigga take your car to get gassed up, washed, detailed, but you on his case about some fucking flowers he don't send to your job because yo homegirl told you her s/o did but what she didn't tell you was he only did that shit to get back in her good graces after he fucked up
Legends do legendary shitI was gonna make the thread but searched first to see if it had been made
I'm with you fellas. I kinda touched on it in the birthday thread.
Ladies expect the world and and rarely match that energy.
I think the only way to be on with it is to truly do things from the heart and not expect shit back. [...]
Im gonna exit tho. This looks like barbershop talk. I got locs.
Every barber shop has that one cool female barber who be up in the mix with everybody else. I mean, she's usually a raging lesbian, but whatever. Stay around a while and kick your feet up.
Yall dont have character flaws, yall are just coming to terms with the fact that the type of partner that you want. Is not the type of partner you've been programmed to believe is the most desirable or compatible partner.
Men, women like you exist, and women, of course, men like you exist. The older we get, the more our comfort in relationships take a more prominent role in what we want.
It's not longer shes annoying but shes bad so I'll over look it. Or, shes annoying but the sex is great, so I'll over look it and get what I want from another female. You dont have a character flaw, you have character.
Accept who you are and stop thinking theres something wrong with you, programming has all of us believing we have to be a certain type of way to be "normal". Theres no such thing as normal, and the most normal people you meet, are the closest to the most insane.