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How do you break up?

Soul_Rattler

Soul_Rattler

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Do you rip it off like a band aid?

Or do you try to gently peel it off?

I just broke it off a week ago and now that's she's had a week to debate everything I told her in her head, she now wants me to hyper-re-explain everything that I already said to beat the conversation she's already had in her head.

Does trying not to be an asshole work or do you lean into the "fuck your feelings" mode?
 
Soul_Rattler said:
Do you rip it off like a band aid?

Or do you try to gently peel it off?

I just broke it off a week ago and now that's she's had a week to debate everything I told her in her head, she now wants me to hyper-re-explain everything that I already said to beat the conversation she's already had in her head.

Does trying not to be an asshole work or do you lean into the "fuck your feelings" mode?
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Depends.
I’ve had a mutual break up. No hard feelings, just keep it moving. I’ve had a non mutual break up, i kept it moving but he wasn’t having it. I’ve also had a bad breakup/mutual break up.

At the end of it all. I ain’t really got problems with them niggas. We just ain’t cool like that no more and we don’t need to be.
 
Via text.

That way you don't have to see them cry.

Just say what you wanna say then block their ass.

No need to repeat nothin cause they can read it.

You welcome.
 
Let them break up wit me...or just stop communicating all together.

That way they can feel like it was their idea, and they walk away wit a W.

Saves me the trouble of having to explain myself on why I wanna end things.
 
Black_Samson said:
16 years deep into marriage.

If that day were to come, I'd just be honest with her and not waste anymore of her time.
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Word,

When I was younger I just stop answering ur calls and avoid her till she get the message.

There was one time I tried breaking up with this chick and she just would not take no for an answer. Which let me know for sure that we shouldn't be dating cause we were only dating for a month and a half.

That convinced me she was as crazy as I thought she was
 
Before in trying times, tried to break it off with the wife. She attacked me and ripped my shirt.

:hahaha:she crazy
 
Just be real. "Look Baby, your sister pussy is better. You still get to see me at Thanksgiving and Christmas dinner."
 
Depends on the reason for the breakup. If some foul shit came into play I'd probably just ignore them until they went away.
 
I never broke up, always getting dumped

I keep it moving. Try to fuck months later
 
BRIAN B. said:
Say sumn like "I ain't shit, you could find someone better"

& keep it pushin lol
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They don't wanna hear that shit.

You know what that does? That makes them want you even more. You're forbidden fruit. The construction project they've been looking for their whole lives, or so they think.
 
IWillCrossTheOcean4U said:
Let them break up wit me...or just stop communicating all together.

That way they can feel like it was their idea, and they walk away wit a W.

Saves me the trouble of having to explain myself on why I wanna end things.
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I used to do this and let me tell you. You'll eventually get old enough where you don't have the time or patience for it.

Why would you keep someone around that you don't even fuckin want? You gotta look at their face and listen to their bullshit long enough for them to be oblivious, then be in denial, then the hours long "things have changed, let's work it out together" conversations.

Take old yeller to the yard and shoot it for fucks sake.
 
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