How are you handling this situation from either side

[konceptjones]

Clearly a staged/fake video, but it begs the questions:

1. If you just got a call from someone saying your ex had just died 15 minutes ago, and maybe you going through it a bit, how would you expect your current S.O. to respond.
2. The flip of that, you come in the door and your S.O. is down in the dumps 'cause he/she just found out their ex died 15 minutes ago, how are you gonna react?

 

[AP2.5]

My ex is still the mother of my child

Regardless of the dynamic that exists between the two of us, our child is one parent less

I can put my feelings aside for her to grieve the loss of a parent for my child, even if I know she would not do the same for me

As far as any other person I've dated since I've been divorced, I would be saddened but I would find a way to mourn so that it doesn't cause any friction in my current situation

 

[Duwop]

I would expect my wife to feel sad it she found out anybody she used to deal with died, as I would expect her to understand how I feel. Human have emotions, everybody don't hate their exes

 

[Rubato]

Lol I would not be dumb enough to let my S/O find out about that while the emotion still raw

 

[AP2.5]

Lol I would not be dumb enough to let my S/O find out about that while the emotion still raw

This too but

Just trying to thread participate

 

[darkboy301]

I don't need my s/o to care about the loss of my ex but at least give me the space and time to grieve on my own especially if I was still close to her


"I hope you lost ya damn appetite too cuz I'm finna get me something to eat".......

 

[Dwayne]

I don’t care if my exs die.

But if my wife divorce me and die even after 20 years I would be devastated

 

[mryounggun]

I’m not a psychopath so I’d show some grace and comfort my woman if she’s torn up over a death.

And if my woman can’t show me some grace when I’m upset about a death…then she ain’t for me.

 

[Loquacious]

I’d expect some sort of sadness. That emotion comes with death.

However, I won’t allow it to cause friction in my relationship. I’d expect that same grace if I was in that situation. I don’t think I’d be torn up behind any of my exes passing away.

 

[IUTpt2]

If my girl ex passed away, I know she'd feel some type of way.

Especially if they weren't beefing or nothing.

 

[Tayboo]

I would more disturbed if my man didn't have any emotional reaction to the news, especially if they were together for years or had children together.

And I would hope that I picked a partner that would be able to give me the same grace...