Busta Carmichael
LOT - Full-Time Kufi/Yarmulke Smacker
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Poll Fair or Foul?: Parent Disciplines Child In Front Of Teacher For Acting Up
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All in front of the cameras
All that anger
Calling you kid a nigga repeatedly
Shit not a good look.
I've disciplined my child quite a few times, but I took inventory of my self and felt I had to dial it back a little as I didn't like the dynamics of it.
And I feel I've had much more progress the less physical and intimidating I came off to my son.
I still threaten to pop his ass from time to time, and every now n then, he may get a quick pop on the back of the neck or legs. But nothing serious.
If I saw a video of myself acting like that, I wouldn't defend it, and I would feel like I needed to fix that.
This ain't yesterday's world. Niggaz actively try to tear down and revisit every tradition and generational curse but beating the dog shit outta their kids....
Is important to discipline. And kids should have a healthy fear of their parents. But we can't go in that shit angry.
And no it's not easy. Both my kids crazy af, and it's work. Hard work trying to bring them in. But I feel I owe it to myself and them to figure it out without losing my shit Everytime they act up.
All that anger
Calling you kid a nigga repeatedly
Shit not a good look.
I've disciplined my child quite a few times, but I took inventory of my self and felt I had to dial it back a little as I didn't like the dynamics of it.
And I feel I've had much more progress the less physical and intimidating I came off to my son.
I still threaten to pop his ass from time to time, and every now n then, he may get a quick pop on the back of the neck or legs. But nothing serious.
If I saw a video of myself acting like that, I wouldn't defend it, and I would feel like I needed to fix that.
This ain't yesterday's world. Niggaz actively try to tear down and revisit every tradition and generational curse but beating the dog shit outta their kids....
Is important to discipline. And kids should have a healthy fear of their parents. But we can't go in that shit angry.
And no it's not easy. Both my kids crazy af, and it's work. Hard work trying to bring them in. But I feel I owe it to myself and them to figure it out without losing my shit Everytime they act up.
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Yeah that's the thing, my "too far" wasn't even close to that....
I can't ever see myself talking to my child like that.... But I have whooped his ass, and while I'm sure it didn't look that bad..... It felt worse on the inside and I felt I had to find another way.
I didn't like the idea of hurting my child on the orders of someone who don't even live with us.
So I revaluated myself, and adjusted my parenting
I can't ever see myself talking to my child like that.... But I have whooped his ass, and while I'm sure it didn't look that bad..... It felt worse on the inside and I felt I had to find another way.
I didn't like the idea of hurting my child on the orders of someone who don't even live with us.
So I revaluated myself, and adjusted my parenting
FIRE BOBBY SLOWIK
I AM THE GAME
I’m not a fan of doing anything negative in front of a camera so yeah it’s foul.
Didn’t even click on the video.
Didn’t even click on the video.
DMorgan
You niggas is EXCOMMUNICADO!!!
Even without the camera there are you saying you would beat your child in front of a teacher because you were called up to the school for your child acting up?
I ain't even disciplining my child in front of an outsider. Cameras ain't got shit to do with it. What a teacher thought my child did wrong can be told to me by the teacher but what I say and how I deal with my child ain't their fucking business.
FIRE BOBBY SLOWIK
I AM THE GAME
Not at all. I guess I should’ve mentioned that in my original post.
DMorgan
You niggas is EXCOMMUNICADO!!!
Cool, just asked cause you did leave that open to interpretation.
DOS_patos
Unverified Legion of Trill member
the crazy thing about this post is...
a father and Mans man in the household and neither would be acting up to embarrass the other...especially not her.
SeaSnake
OG
I wanna take your thought and just reword it to say a father presence. The father and the mother dont have to be together for the child to still get a solid and nurturing upbringing.
A simple "i'ma tell ya daddy" would've probably been infinitely better than what she attempted. But overall, i agree with your sentiment.
bluntedsultan
Locked and Loaded
He gonna grow up to resent his mom a bit because of shit like that
don’t ask me how i know
don’t ask me how i know
Let me tell you that shit don't matter.
If your son wanna act an ass, Daddy in the house or not. He gonna act an ass. I be up the school more than my wife. I discipline him more. I'm hard as shit on that boy....
But he still do him.
We're making progress now, but I think it has to do with maturity and actually not wanting to lose shit or get his ass whooped. But from like 4-7 i could have and actually tried everything from ass whoppings, talks, specialist, punishment, losing privlidges. One year we did no Christmas. All his gifts went in the basement and he couldn't open not one until we got weekly progress in school. I'm talking at the end of the week, we added up points, and if he had enough to get a gift, he got one. If not. He didn't.
It was summer time and his ass still had Christmas gifts in the damn basement.
I know that's the go to... But kids have will... If they wanna act out.... They gonna act out. Farther or no father
If your son wanna act an ass, Daddy in the house or not. He gonna act an ass. I be up the school more than my wife. I discipline him more. I'm hard as shit on that boy....
But he still do him.
We're making progress now, but I think it has to do with maturity and actually not wanting to lose shit or get his ass whooped. But from like 4-7 i could have and actually tried everything from ass whoppings, talks, specialist, punishment, losing privlidges. One year we did no Christmas. All his gifts went in the basement and he couldn't open not one until we got weekly progress in school. I'm talking at the end of the week, we added up points, and if he had enough to get a gift, he got one. If not. He didn't.
It was summer time and his ass still had Christmas gifts in the damn basement.
I know that's the go to... But kids have will... If they wanna act out.... They gonna act out. Farther or no father
Rubato
it only matters to us
Same sentiment I was going for
My son got in a fight the other day....
He was on the computer and asked his friend to hold his turn while he went to the bathroom. Friend agrees. My son goes and comes back from the bathroom like, iight, time to get up. Kid is like naw....
So my son grabs the kid by the neck and they going at it.
The other kids dad wanted a conference cuz his kid came home with marks on his neck. So here we are two dads who are clearly in the home with boys who were fighting.
And the other Dad was clearly hurt cuz his son was acting goofy an silly as shit even in the damn office. Mines was shook cuz he knew he was in trouble. But my whole point is.... Father's can be right there and the kids still not gonna act the way you want them to...
I guess homie wants his son to be more serious and stand up for himself, and over compensates by being too hard on him.
Where as I gotta little savage who I gotta constantly talk to about using his words and not his hands.... Which I had to learn by not beating the hell out of him an controlling my anger when talking to him.
Like how can I teach my son to control his anger and not hit people while I'm constantly hitting him cuz I'm angry.
I had to learn that, cuz my son puts his hands on other people's kids
He was on the computer and asked his friend to hold his turn while he went to the bathroom. Friend agrees. My son goes and comes back from the bathroom like, iight, time to get up. Kid is like naw....
So my son grabs the kid by the neck and they going at it.
The other kids dad wanted a conference cuz his kid came home with marks on his neck. So here we are two dads who are clearly in the home with boys who were fighting.
And the other Dad was clearly hurt cuz his son was acting goofy an silly as shit even in the damn office. Mines was shook cuz he knew he was in trouble. But my whole point is.... Father's can be right there and the kids still not gonna act the way you want them to...
I guess homie wants his son to be more serious and stand up for himself, and over compensates by being too hard on him.
Where as I gotta little savage who I gotta constantly talk to about using his words and not his hands.... Which I had to learn by not beating the hell out of him an controlling my anger when talking to him.
Like how can I teach my son to control his anger and not hit people while I'm constantly hitting him cuz I'm angry.
I had to learn that, cuz my son puts his hands on other people's kids
mryounggun
OG
Dawg not everyone should be allowed to be a parent. This is what child abuse looks like. And fuck off if you disagree.