fair or foul: My new wife wanted to live with me for free, even though she had $800,000 in the bank

[DOS_patos]

My wife and I got married at 63. We are the same age. She was debt free. Her parents bought her everything, forever. She made $30,000 per year after quitting a job as a heart nurse. Her dad gave her $28,000 a year tax free.

She also had approximately $800,000 banked. I made $120,000 and was debt free except for a mortgage with $150,000 remaining. I have $330,000 in a 401(k), plus a pension when I retire.

I paid for everything before we married. Everything! We ate in nice restaurants to the tune of $11,000 during the first year. We married, we discussed our finances and agreed we could split everything.

We were together for 4 years and married for 2.5 years. She moved in and promptly announced that she would live with me for nothing. We eventually started putting an equal amount in a joint account, but this just lasted a year.

I asked her to leave. She did.

I retired with $375,000 in savings and 401(k), $2,600 per month in Social Security benefits, and $1,800 per month in a pension.

We live in North Carolina. How should the money be split?

 

[Kentucky]

Damn, I didn’t know you was that old

 

[Young_Chitlin]

We were together for 4 years and married for 2.5 years. She moved in and promptly announced that she would live with me for nothing.

Even if this old hag was a billionaire trust fund baby, when you don't bring anything to the table, that attitude will have her spend her final years alone

 

[loud-ninja]

Was that agreement to split everything, was that convo before or during the marriage? I take it that there is no prenup?

 

[AP3.0]

 

[Busta Carmichael]

This you or is this a story?

Also yes its foul! She sounds spoiled

 

[Babelipsss]

I know a woman who has 7 properties and when she visits her family she goes in ripped clothes and messy hair telling them she's broke and on welfare so that they don't ask her for money because they would Rob her themselves if they knew.

Smh. Never understood people with this outlook in life. Does she think strangers won't rob her? She seeks out her family's good will and companionship for her own needs but that's where the line cuts off? Who is really the user in that situation?

 

[LUCIEN]

If she has all that money why don't you guys just sign prenups? Not like you're going to need to worry about kids or anything, you're old af

 

[DOS_patos]

This you or is this a story?

Also yes its foul! She sounds spoiled

hell no....this is from an article.....

why yall niggas calling me 63?

im offended

 

[DOS_patos]

I know a woman who has 7 properties and when she visits her family she goes in ripped clothes and messy hair telling them she's broke and on welfare so that they don't ask her for money because they would Rob her themselves if they knew.

i have learned my lesson from this very thing

 

[DOS_patos]

If she has all that money why don't you guys just sign prenups? Not like you're going to need to worry about kids or anything, you're old af

this is not me....yall some hurt as niggas


this is the link

https://www.marketwatch.com/Story/m...move-out-2018-06-14?&siteid=yhoof2&yptr=yahoo

 

[DOS_patos]

Smh. Never understood people with this outlook in life. Does she think strangers won't rob her? She seeks out her family's good will and companionship for her own needs but that's where the line cuts off? Who is really the user in that situation?

or maybe she just wants them to see her.

trust me...when people know you have money....thats all they see

 

[12bitCounsel]

Nigga learned late that love is expensive.

 

[Elzo69Renaissance]

Ass cash or gas ..... no one rides for free

 

[BRIAN B.]

or maybe she just wants them to see her.

trust me...when people know you have money....thats all they see

I kno sum folks (fam included) who got millions, but you wouldn't think so seein them pull up in a Toyota Corolla lol

 

[DOS_patos]

and niggas was clowning cause i still drive my 2000 lincoln ls

 

[Dwayne]

Smh. Never understood people with this outlook in life. Does she think strangers won't rob her? She seeks out her family's good will and companionship for her own needs but that's where the line cuts off? Who is really the user in that situation?

Family would take from you wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy before a stranger

 

[AP3.0]

 

[LurkerSix]

I kno sum folks (fam included) who got millions, but you wouldn't think so seein them pull up in a Toyota Corolla lol

I know a man who is worth $1.4 billion and is on the Forbes list and he drives a Toyota LOLOL

I wouldnt trust these niggas judgement on anything. Corollas been trash for years. Should of went with a civic or something else smh.

 

[DOS_patos]

I wouldnt trust these niggas judgement on anything. Corollas been trash for years. Should of went with a civic or something else smh.

its the fact that something so small on the grand scheme of things are not that important.

if i have a billion...you think im worried about the type of bike or bus pass i have?