i have 1 cousin who lives his life to please white folks..... ain't neva seen him wit a black woman in his life...... but he always showin his teeth when a basic white woman walks past him..... he's the epitome of the term house nigga.
My two older brothers have a preference into non-black women too. In the case of the eldest one, into white Quebecois women and Frenchmaids with little to no hint of "exoticiness" creeping in, then my late older brother into non-black women hailing from communities or towns that hates black people, although I already saw him dating a West Indian but she was rude, bipolar, irreverencious, borderline psychotic, lowly and enough fucked top to once molest me while I was taking a shower. He also dated a Seychellian once, whose half of her family loathed mine as well as any mainland African for decades: that MOFO had fallaciously accused him of rape. Even her own cousins rejected her because she was a mad liar and sought to get into a beef with the wrong man.
My mother had very quite often qualified them in her teeth of being race traitors for these, and recalled us every few once and then that our relatives and ethnic brethren in our familial homeland would strongly disapprove these miscagenatory relationships with non-Africans (in particular with both Caucasians and Semitic populations, who are still regarded as "
inferior" , "
slaves" , "
heathens" , "
lost" , "
impure" or "
lowly" by any who musnt been brainwashed by the imperialist propaganda from the ex-colonizers-- heck, the general denomination we give to white people in Central Africa's languagues commonly meant "
drunkyards" , "
the untrustworthy ones" , "
They who are zigzaguing along" ,"
Errands, Landless ones, Nomads" ... this speaks
volumes about the enmity that some precolonial sub-Saharan African populations and nations held toward the incoming Europeans) , but we all know why they winded up being preferably acquaitancing with women of less favourable ethnic background. They got frequently bullied, beaten down or obliged into a fight back in elementary school by cliques of black folks whose ringleaders happened often to be either Haitian girls or their own countrygirls. Our mother and aunt stopped attending church when I was around age 4 because some bitter, envious fellow older countrywomen were bullying and beating my siblings and cousins most every single Sunday for the sole petty purpose to pick a fight with their mothers. And at last, even my own mother wasn't helping in that situation: she was the estrangled (now widowed) wife of an absent father, who has proven at some occassions to be overbearing, sassy, abusive, arrogant, colerical, melancholic, overly assertive and even borderline purpoted into attempting to emasculate her sons while expecting from us thst we become the exact opposite and in sommer manner spoiling them too much. The younger you are as a sibling, the less favored you were yet simultaneously cuddled and spoiled the least of her favorite children (save my older sister until their reconciliation years ago, and me since age 9) . Our late grandmother was the sweetest angel and a lioness for her grandchildren but a toxic and abusive mother for all of her children, in particular my mother that she regarded as a rival. Female famed role models in our native country have the same mindset, if not even worse and the very few fellow country sisthren they dated during their adolescence
had all reportedly attempted to murder them.
No wonder why they've been fed up of black women at some point. My deceaded older brother used to be half-baffled and half-flustered to hear that the hook-up I was frequenting the most was West Indian and that I was still holding an opened "second-chance" mindset toward black women, in particular both our countrywomen and West Indians. He told me to NEVER trust any them, that our countrywomen were a lost cause... it's been six or seven years since the last time he gave me that advice and I've still been unable to prove him wrong, even on his grave. Montreal is such a toxic wasteland, both socially and mentally wise.