love anymore or is it more so for stability?
Do people marry for...
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Race Jones
gangster. grace. alchemy
my theory: if ppl were truly in love, they wouldnt get married
Judge Dread
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What do you mean by Stability? and Yes I think people still marry for love. Maybe more so now than at any other point because society has removed most of the other reasons to get married. It is staying married that is the problem.
Race Jones
gangster. grace. alchemy
Goldie trying to get all deep lmaoo
Whats love?
What is life?
What is our divine purpose?
sit down Buddha
Ironman
Genius, Billionaire, Playboy, Philanthropist
i consider love for a person to be the decision to place someone else's needs over your own with the only their happiness in mind.
Of course there's levels...but i think it begins when you are willing to put them over you. That's love to me.
right now, for this argument....i have no idea what i said in previous threads of the same topic
i hate these debates with u, lol
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Love is the epitome of selflessness...
Which is why marriage is quickly becoming something to be frowned upon...because people are becoming more and more self centered and selfish
You should never have to put anybody above you to be loved or give love. So not being your natural self and doing things you would naturally do is not them loving you for you, but loving you for doing what they would want you to do.
I know I'm getting too deep for yall right now, so Ima let that marinate for a lil bit.
Joshie Kahn
"I can fix that"
but the desire is there.....something being acted out in practice doesn't always apply to emotions when explaining in theory.....
when you are in love with someone you would place that person's needs above yours. If i had to chose between my life or my wife's i'd spare my wife instantly. and i'm sure she'd do the same for me.
if my wife was sick, and i saw her in pain, i'd take the pain just so she wouldn't have to bear it.
of course there's no magical way for that shit to actually happen... but that's the best way to describe that emotion...
if you're going to be absolutely literal and practical, then of course u can poke holes in it, but we're being asked to describe an emotion....
i love my kids too, and i'd starve so that they won't be a little hungry.......thank god i never had to, but i absolutely would....or would want to.... because the emotion i call love compels me to place those people i have for ahead of my own self in many situations....
Golden
Administrator
for better reasons than they did in the past..
I agree with it :saywut:
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