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Another man/woman disciplining your kids - what say you?

mryounggun

mryounggun

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...or you disciplining someone else's kids.

Just saw an article and video on Yahoo about this. I got my own experiences but I'm tryna hear from everybody else. Say your kid's mother or father movies in with a new significant other. You ok with that person disciplining your kids? Anything you're not good with? Can they spank them? Etc.
 
Nah, that nigga would get fucked up trying to lay down the law. Kids that aren't biologically yours you have to let that parent handle it
 
it really depends on a few things......

if my kid got outta line with the mom or bucked at dude in his house......

i would rather he not but i cant fault him for his reaction in his house.

but on some spank because of low grade shit...nah

taking phones and all that........my kid has to respect rules.

i truly believe in the village shit.
 
Depends on the age, infraction, how long they been together.

Easy answer is, they ain't able to do anything that I don't do
 
hard for me to play this game lol

I say no, but knowing her she'd be with someone responsible with some sense who would most likely be trying to do right

problem is I have girls....and thats gonna override any of my trying to "grow" and "be mature" in that situation

now outside of that is another story.....grandparents, my siblings, other family like that....if you're actually in their life I have no problem with you disciplining them
 
It really depends on my definition of discipline fitting the other persons.

If I dont physically discipline my kids but I find out you do? Im flipping out. If take away phones for back talk, im ok with another person doing that too.

Shits a wild circumstance though. Thats why I pray I never have a kid with a chick im not married too and that once im married we dont divorce.

I would hate having another dude around my kids.
 
I grew up in a time and place where everyone in the neighborhood would whoop dat ass if you fucked up and they would tell your parents what and why they did it. My little town had the whole "it takes a village to raise a child" mentality. I will say though must of the people in my town all knew each other so there's also that.

To answer the question though, if my son fucking up and that person see him fucking up then by all means discipline him. Don't whoop him though I'll handle that.
 
Hell nah...grew up with two step parents and they would never think about laying hands on us.

That said if they told our parents it was a wrap. Stepdad even looked out for me a few times.
 
in order for you to discipline my kids we have to have a long talk, we have to see eye to eye, and there has to be a level of trust there...


so unless we're going to really do this co-parent thing as 100% mature adults who openly communicate with each other

don't touch my fucking kids....
 
When we say discipline are we talkin about corporal punishment only?

My girls brother want let his lady even tell his kid what to do at all, the daughter can disrespect the shit outta her, and his girl isn't allowed to say anything.

But that steams from his traumatic stepfather experiences
 
Moms boyfriend was a hoeass nigga, on some common law shit u can say they was married we clashed to the point I had to go, so a nigga promised I would NEVA let my kids go thru a step ANYTHING. Touch mine I'm atchu
 
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