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L.L.R.J.

L.L.R.J.

I’m doin’ her quite well
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As most of you know I have a travel job where I’m home every other weekend. Was lonely a while ago and, on the advice of @AP4.0 I rejoined bumble, the dating app.

I actually matched with a mom in her early 40s, a Latina. We matched and began talking on a Monday in August and didn’t meet until about 2 weeks later. We got to know each other with phone calls and texts but the sexual tension was apparent from the beginning. Once we met, it was all about fucking and there was a lot of it!

She does basically anything I want sexually and that’s great but I don’t see her as GF material. We hang out and fuck but now she wants me to hold her hand and go out on dates. She has 2 kids and says her kids don’t respect her. She basically spoils them. She has a good job and makes more than me but she’s looking for another job. We went on a few and they were fine. I definitely wouldn’t take her seriously as a GF if my job was local. I’d try to fuck and that would be it.

How much longer should I wait until I break her heart?
 
Don’t waste that chicks time, If she wants to be serious and you don’t.

I’m not saying to stop fucking her, but you need to see if she is okay with just being friends with benefits because you wouldn’t want someone to play with your time if the shoes were on the other foot, I’m sure.

Never know, she might be cool with fucking and hanging out, kinda like you already are doing.
 
Just tell her, you like her, but you not in the head space for a serious attachment. You like being around her energy, she's helped you get thru some tough times. But you respect her and don't wanna waste her time is she's looking for something more, or someone who would go further in a relationship than you're willing to.

The her she deserves better.


She's not gonna listen, but at least you said it. Also Latinas cut niggaz ever day B. Strap some phone books around your abdomen.
 
Duwop said:
Just tell her, you like her, but you not in the head space for a serious attachment. You like being around her energy, she's helped you get thru some tough times. But you respect her and don't wanna waste her time is she's looking for something more, or someone who would go further in a relationship than you're willing to.

The her she deserves better.


She's not gonna listen, but at least you said it. Also Latinas cut niggaz ever day B. Strap some phone books around your abdomen.
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This is some great advice


So my birthday is next month and I kinda want her to spoil me that day and night

We went out for her birthday last weekend and I got a hotel with a balcony near the beach and did nasty things to each other

I kinda wanna wait until the new year to cut things off
 
L.L.R.J. said:
This is some great advice


So my birthday is next month and I kinda want her to spoil me that day and night

We went out for her birthday last weekend and I got a hotel with a balcony near the beach and did nasty things to each other

I kinda wanna wait until the new year to cut things off
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Now you just being a nigga

Just tell her

She either gonna be down for it all or she not. Both are ok

She just may be looking for some form of companionship without a commitment but YOU have to make sure your intentions are well known
 
AP4.0 said:
Now you just being a nigga

Just tell her

She either gonna be down for it all or she not. Both are ok

She just may be looking for some form of companionship without a commitment but YOU have to make sure your intentions are well known
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That’s also good advice

Ok
 
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Honestly, that's why I would never do dating apps... My specialty is casual acquaintances...I always warn chicks I'm not relationship material.... I'm too mentally unavailable...I just happened to run into a stubborn ass Taurus who didn't take no for an answer.
 
L.L.R.J. said:
That’s also good advice

Ok
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I'ma just say this

This might be a good thing for you

One kid already out the house lol. You how she not trying to have no more

But at least have the convo about expectations
 
Again my nigga, Latinas cut.

It's best to just tell her where you're at mentally/emotionally and let her make her decision. If she is under the mindset this is developing into something else.... It's going to get worse and worse.

If she decides to stick around and accept the casual relationship y'all have now as a norm... This could be a best case scenario for how you're feeling at the moment..

The risk is worth the reward imo.
 
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