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Elzo69Renaissance said:
Man I feel that …. My best homie was murdered and I used to look after his baby girl ( idk the baby moms met her once) Gave his sister bread for bdays and Xmas u know shit like that somehow life got in the way and it’s been a while since I spoke to the sister so it’s been a while since I sent bread for the kid… I’m trying to get back to it but I don’t even know how to open shit back up w the sister

But somehow life
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My home boy was an only child and lost his pops as a baby. So it was just him and his mom and his grandmother. We started being best friends in like 3rd grade. I met his wife first, but she was annoying to me, so I passed her to him and they still together till this day.... But me and her never got along. It hit a head when she got pregnant with his son... And I flat out told him neither of us grew up with a father, so Imma step back so he can be a father for his son.... Cuz there was no way we could be friends if he was with that chick. She hated my guts, and I would roast her ass every time chance I got. But I wasn't going to continue to do that if they were starting a family together. So I willfully stepped back. Shit crushed him... His mom was crushed... His wife was on some "told you he wasn't shit" the whole thing was wild... But that night was cool though... Me and him had his son rolling talking about the wild shit we did as kids.

He was asking about stuff his grandma told him I did. It was a good moment.
 
thatboyd1zz said:
Damn son what happened to you?
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I thought I had a heart attack luckily that crib is a block away from the hospital so I walk there they check me out said I was all good but my troponin level was higher than it should be not high enough where I need to worry but just higher than normal

So they kept me in that bitch for a week to run every test possible to determine the cause they couldn’t locate anything and the level started decreasing so they sent me home and just monitor my shit regularly
 
Duwop said:
I missed the first two by the skin on my teeth. But I had 3 funerals this year.

And I ran into an Uncle that I literally hate at one, only to come to church and they were letting him preach that Sunday. I had to step out the church and cool off in the parking lot I was so heated. It was either that or pull slim off the pulpit and stomp him out in front of the entire church. Prolly the first time I ever smoked weed in the church parking lot...
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man funerals are hard evey inch of them mf be hard especially when they start playing the music ahh man or somebody go up there and give a speech about the person and you remember those times


rip kai🕊️🕊️
 
Duwop said:
My home boy was an only child and lost his pops as a baby. So it was just him and his mom and his grandmother. We started being best friends in like 3rd grade. I met his wife first, but she was annoying to me, so I passed her to him and they still together till this day.... But me and her never got along. It hit a head when she got pregnant with his son... And I flat out told him neither of us grew up with a father, so Imma step back so he can be a father for his son.... Cuz there was no way we could be friends if he was with that chick. She hated my guts, and I would roast her ass every time chance I got. But I wasn't going to continue to do that if they were starting a family together. So I willfully stepped back. Shit crushed him... His mom was crushed... His wife was on some "told you he wasn't shit" the whole thing was wild... But that night was cool though... Me and him had his son rolling talking about the wild shit we did as kids.

He was asking about stuff his grandma told him I did. It was a good moment.
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wtf ? I had a similar situation but once I passed her to the bro I really stopped interacting w her and would only speak to her to the bro

30 years later and we all still cool …. Even though they ended up breaking up they still like family to each other and I’m still cool w both of them and still go through homie to speak to her out of respect
 
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The same as every year for me. The good and bad shit always seem to balance each other out. I'm actually going to try and make a big move next year. Depending how that turns out next year might break the monotony and be either a 1 or a 5 for me. lol
 
It was a 5 for me. Went on a couple dope vacations. Recharged the batteries. Created some beautiful memories with my family. Finished the remodel on my salon. Next year even better. I'm gonna be able to quit my other job and just run my salon full time. Renewing my vows with wifey. Things are looking up!
 
Elzo69Renaissance said:
wtf ? I had a similar situation but once I passed her to the bro I really stopped interacting w her and would only speak to her to the bro

30 years later and we all still cool …. Even though they ended up breaking up they still like family to each other and I’m still cool w both of them and still go through homie to speak to her out of respect
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Naw I hated this chick back then. She used to play right in his face. She tried to get her brother to jump me. Stayed trying u come between us as friends. Kept giving him ultimatums. But when I saw she was pregnant, I had to step back.. Wasn't bout to make that man choose between his homie and the mother of his child. That was petty. I was like there's no choice to be made. Go be a family man. It was a good 8-9 years before I even met my wife, so at the time I never even thought I'd be married with kids one day... I saw that he was on the road towards that and I wasn't going to be the one to mess it up
 
The Lonious Monk said:
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The same as every year for me. The good and bad shit always seem to balance each other out. I'm actually going to try and make a big move next year. Depending how that turns out next year might break the monotony and be either a 1 or a 5 for me. lol
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Fam u can’t continue to have 40 degree years lol we got to make some move to get u to a 5 by December 2025 ….. what are ur short terms goals for 2025
 
Duwop said:
Naw I hated this chick back then. She used to play right in his face. She tried to get her brother to jump me. Stayed trying u come between us as friends. Kept giving him ultimatums. But when I saw she was pregnant, I had to step back.. Wasn't bout to make that man choose between his homie and the mother of his child. That was petty. I was like there's no choice to be made. Go be a family man. It was a good 8-9 years before I even met my wife, so at the time I never even thought I'd be married with kids one day... I saw that he was on the road towards that and I wasn't going to be the one to mess it up
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That’s dope of you to see the bigger picture
 
Elzo69Renaissance said:
That’s dope of you to see the bigger picture
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That's why I thanked her for holding him down. Especially at the moment he lost his mom's.. Cuz his mom's didn't like her either. But she really stayed with that nigga all these years. They got damn near 30 years in which is CRAZY all things considered.
 
Duwop said:
That's why I thanked her for holding him down. Especially at the moment he lost his mom's.. Cuz his mom's didn't like her either. But she really stayed with that nigga all these years. They got damn near 30 years in which is CRAZY all things considered.
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lol 30 years is crazy

I’m working to get there I’m just glad I got to be outside before settling down lol one of our mans been w his girl since sophomore in HS straight no breaks lol we always like damn bro u missed out on some shit but as long as u happy we happy
 
Norrin_Radd said:
It was a 5 for me. Went on a couple dope vacations. Recharged the batteries. Created some beautiful memories with my family. Finished the remodel on my salon. Next year even better. I'm gonna be able to quit my other job and just run my salon full time. Renewing my vows with wifey. Things are looking up!
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Oh and one other thing I can't believe I didn't say this first! I feel bad. But my mom is in remission! Cancer free!!!
MOTHERFUCK CANCER!
 
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