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Knock_Twice said:
For some, that could be the case, but most dudes, I would think if they have brought a date to one of their homeboys shindig, he at least like her and wouldn't be sloppy like that to setup a play for later, what would be your mindset/mood if your date smiled in another dude's face at the party and she didn't say anything to you about it, are you asking her then, in the car, or you're not sweating it.
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Then u have no reason to be conversing for that long
 
Knock_Twice said:
What's your rule when it comes to another woman at a party fixing your plate? again, going by your situation, houseguest coming to you asking what you want on your plate lol
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Because the Internet exists and niggaz ran this shit into the hole we either make our own plates or make each other's.

I've never been in a situation where someone else made my plate. I think that era is over. People overdid it.
 
I prolly wouldn't say anything. I don't really see the point. If my girl asked me about her, I'd tell her. But I prolly wouldn't just proactively go back over to my girl and be like 'Me and her used to fuck around a couple years back!'.
 
Duwop said:
Because the Internet exists and niggaz ran this shit into the hole we either make our own plates or make each other's.

I've never been in a situation where someone else made my plate. I think that era is over. People overdid it.
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"The plates are over there girl, you can fix him what he wants"
 
6-8 minutes at a cookout feels like an eternity when you at the table and your s/o supposed to “be right back”. You lucky to get a hi & bye outta me if you my ex I’m quick to act like I don’t know you. My wife knows all my ex’s and hates each one of them on a personal level so this diabolical work would not fly with me. True definition of “not today satan”.
 
mryounggun said:
I prolly wouldn't say anything. I don't really see the point. If my girl asked me about her, I'd tell her. But I prolly wouldn't just proactively go back over to my girl and be like 'Me and her used to fuck around a couple years back!'.
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Yeah that just seems to be inviting a problem and annoying conversation.
 
Knock_Twice said:
What happens if your s/o takes longer than the allotted time that's set in the situation, or better yet, if your date brought you there to her friend's shindig, you're the new dude, you don't know anybody, but she knows most.

You just been kicking shit wit her for about 3 weeks to a month, and this is her folks, you're her date,

Do you time her convos? or do you just sit there and play it cool like a g with all her interactions?
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3 weeks to a month is a different situation...I'd probably play it cool.. but observe the longer convos and take note
 
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Knock_Twice said:
I've heard that women can at time smell the past juices on you and your old flang that you had,

Is it wrong if you don't say anything about the situation if you're the dude who was laughing with the old flang and also is it a bit insecure on the dude's part if he's peeping his date, s/o, cracking the fuck up with her old flang, to ask, what's all the kee-keeing you were doing with bud with the brown sweater on at the mini bar?
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To be absolutely real, for me, it’s out of sight out of mind. If I’m with my S/O at a function, when she go mingle, as far as I’m concerned at that point, I’m in, I’m here on my own mode. If I can’t trust her to be ghost for a while and do her thing without fear of possibility’s.

Why am I even in a commited thing with her? If I happen to scan the room and she’s talking to a dude, I’m leaving the area. I’m not even gonna allow myself the ability to create thoughts to feel a way. Cause I will, and I will feel a way. As a man, how can you not?

We just territorial like that, we can’t help it. When it come to telling her, she really only care if the woman looks way worse than her or way better.

Way worse make em feel like, oh you just fuck anything, so I can’t even trust that you’d only cheat up, every chick is on the board. Way better make em feel like, you slumming wit me?

Ion care how much confidence she got, way better always make em feel like you think you settled for her. And that make her feel a way, it’s crazy.
 
RusselWilsonJr said:
To be absolutely real, for me, it’s out of sight out of mind. If I’m with my S/O at a function, when she go mingle, as far as I’m concerned at that point, I’m in, I’m here on my own mode. If I can’t trust her to be ghost for a while and do her thing without fear of possibility’s.

Why am I even in a commited thing with her? If I happen to scan the room and she’s talking to a dude, I’m leaving the area. I’m not even gonna allow myself the ability to create thoughts to feel a way. Cause I will, and I will feel a way. As a man, how can you not?

We just territorial like that, we can’t help it. When it come to telling her, she really only care if the woman looks way worse than her or way better.

Way worse make em feel like, oh you just fuck anything, so I can’t even trust that you’d only cheat up, every chick is on the board. Way better make em feel like, you slumming wit me?

Ion care how much confidence she got, way better always make em feel like you think you settled for her. And that make her feel a way, it’s crazy.
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Respect.

The last segment, I wanna flip the play, would you care if her old flang was an uneven having afro bum, or if he was one them pretty ricky looking motherfuckers,

Would you have those exact same thoughts as her, if she downgraded or has upgraded with you?
 
Koltrain said:
3 weeks to a month is a different situation...I'd probably play it cool.. but observe the longer conveos and take note
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What kind of notes are you taking, will you reveal those notes to her, have your guard become stronger from what you've seen from her, engaging in long convo,

Will she slip out of a certain position status, meaning, she was a potential gf, to now being a Tuesday and Thursday chick, or being a I'll call you when I'm bored chick after your take on the long convo and the intel that you've gathered from her actions of the night

But being fair to her, you may just have a chick who has a good personality, friendly, likes to engage in convo. People person
 
Knock_Twice said:
Respect.

The last segment, I wanna flip the play, would you care if her old flang was an uneven having afro bum, or if he was one them pretty ricky looking motherfuckers,

Would you have those exact same thoughts as her, if she downgraded or has upgraded with you?
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nah, fuck em
 
6-10 mins is a mighty long to be talking to someone you have no plans on introducing me to.
 
if u running into situations like this on a regular

then that means ur circle is too small


when u and one of ur old flings/exes bumping into each other at cookouts and shit

that mean u might not be using proper discernment or u just getting with anything local
 
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