One of the problems is that, and I know certain people don’t like to read this or hear it, but yes, feminism did bleed its way into the relationship game. We can ignore it or deny it all we want, but the truth is the truth. It’s an inconvenient truth that you can’t deny just because you don’t wanna hear it.
A lot of the podcasters to me get it wrong because they say just enough things to sound like they hate women and wish for their castigation. One problem IMO is that women don’t really admit or acknowledge how there are things they say and do these come off as men hate too but they have there beautiful feminism train they get to ride on. This story is so played out that people actually think of women as equals but not having equal representation in the things they’ve done to bring down the relationship market.
A lot of men realized they’re good enough for a woman’s attention but not always good enough for her to date or be with. It could get more drawn out as far as an explanation, But even with this fact people will try and act as if it’s not true or relevant.