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80% of Single Men Are No Longer Interested In Dating, Why?

These days I see way more Red Pill type of pods than relationship advice pods. At least for men.
I see a lot of red pill content too, but even within that space there's a lot of advice given about dating. I don't see much content saying men should stop dating all altogether. Not like the man vs the bear type content that is geared toward women...
 
I see a lot of red pill content too, but even within that space there's a lot of advice given about dating. I don't see much content saying men should stop dating all altogether. Not like the man vs the bear type content that is geared toward women...

I clicked on Red Pill pod a while back. They were dropping gems the first couple mins and then it turned into a full blown anti-women movement.. had a nigga like


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@Goldie @Tayboo @SeaSnake @Inglewood_B @konceptjones @southsil4lil

No one brings this up but I genuinely feel like dating is easier for most guys that are financially stable and have free time.

We got a lot of broke ass niggas around.

I didn't date in hs and only started dating when I entered college. In college i barely had free time too since I had deal with my tough pre med courses. I also worked part time. I was a commuter too which was basically a death sentence to my social life on campus..

My dating life got better after I dropped out of college and entered the work force. From 23 - 25 I was in a long term relationship. During that time period all I did was work and relax. I had way more free time compared to when I was in college.

Most of my close friends that didn't go to college after high school had an active dating life during their early 20s. I got close friends that entered the trades, the military, and the regular workforce after high school. Their whole life basically was: work, gym, gaming and dating.

I feel like a large part of that 80% are men in college and men living in rural areas.
 
Fake made up numbers


But why some people dont..

The pool is trash
Peope don't want strings
Accountability
Responsibility
Commitment as far as time or Loyalty

Nothing wrong with that at least they aint faking it

He didn't even refrence a bs poll just magical
 
Feminism back then and what passes for feminism today ain't even close to the same and you know it.


I didn’t say they were the same tho. It’s so many other bigger reasons why the relationship between men and women is fucked up. Blaming it for every problem in the community even dating is weak.

And I get it yall are gonna give some example of some feminist extremist calling niggas bullet bags. Or some stripper rapper talking about gettin niggas for money. But yall can tell me every regular woman is in that shit.

I think people maybe don’t date as much because of money issues. As a man we are expected to foot the bill and maybe that shit can be high with a new person.
 
@Goldie @Tayboo @SeaSnake @Inglewood_B @konceptjones @southsil4lil

No one brings this up but I genuinely feel like dating is easier for most guys that are financially stable and have free time.

We got a lot of broke ass niggas around.

I didn't date in hs and only started dating when I entered college. In college i barely had free time too since I had deal with my tough pre med courses. I also worked part time. I was a commuter too which was basically a death sentence to my social life on campus..

My dating life got better after I dropped out of college and entered the work force. From 23 - 25 I was in a long term relationship. During that time period all I did was work and relax. I had way more free time compared to when I was in college.

Most of my close friends that didn't go to college after high school had an active dating life during their early 20s. I got close friends that entered the trades, the military, and the regular workforce after high school. Their whole life basically was: work, gym, gaming and dating.

I feel like a large part of that 80% are men in college and men living in rural areas.

Nah b, I used to date in high school working at Hardee's. Dated chicks in college and all that. Lived with my moms and had no car and still dated by either borrowing my moms ride or having ole girl pick me up. At one point moms used to hate answering the phone 'cause most of the calls were from random broads hittin me up. Dated when I had roommates and we was all broke as shit living in an apartment with no furniture and wound up with a girlfriend during that time.

And I could keep going. I think the mentality has shifted quite a bit. Back then it was really all about getting to know someone over a bite to eat and maybe checking out a flick or something afterwards. The average chick was more willing to date a dude with no wheels if he came at her in the right way. I always kept a job and was on the freight a lot back then, but that didn't seem to bother the women I went out with. Shit was easier when I had a ride, for sure, especially my Mustangs, but even without a car it wasn't all that hard to date. College was no different, and if I'm being really honest, it was far easier on campus 'cause everything was right there. Taking a chick out to dinner meant hitting the Dining Commons or one of the spots in the Student Union or Eateries. Taking walks around campus, chillin in the dorm rooms, hitting the arcade or bowling alley on campus, watching a flick or something, shit was almost too easy.

I think the expectations social media has set for what dating is supposed to look like is greatly overinflated.
 
I clicked on Red Pill pod a while back. They were dropping gems the first couple mins and then it turned into a full blown anti-women movement.. had a nigga like


K8Lv-T.gif

I've never really watched any red pill content. Felt like it was pointless since I debated rad fems a few times online. Red pill content to meet seemed like the target audience was mainly for dumb ass niggas.
Nah b, I used to date in high school working at Hardee's. Dated chicks in college and all that. Lived with my moms and had no car and still dated by either borrowing my moms ride or having ole girl pick me up. At one point moms used to hate answering the phone 'cause most of the calls were from random broads hittin me up. Dated when I had roommates and we was all broke as shit living in an apartment with no furniture and wound up with a girlfriend during that time.

And I could keep going. I think the mentality has shifted quite a bit. Back then it was really all about getting to know someone over a bite to eat and maybe checking out a flick or something afterwards. The average chick was more willing to date a dude with no wheels if he came at her in the right way. I always kept a job and was on the freight a lot back then, but that didn't seem to bother the women I went out with. Shit was easier when I had a ride, for sure, especially my Mustangs, but even without a car it wasn't all that hard to date. College was no different, and if I'm being really honest, it was far easier on campus 'cause everything was right there. Taking a chick out to dinner meant hitting the Dining Commons or one of the spots in the Student Union or Eateries. Taking walks around campus, chillin in the dorm rooms, hitting the arcade or bowling alley on campus, watching a flick or something, shit was almost too easy.

I think the expectations social media has set for what dating is supposed to look like is greatly overinflated.

Sounds like you had a decent amount of free time while in college and high school. Like I said before my social life got way better right after I dropped out of college.

All I focused on was going to work, getting in shape and meeting chicks. I didn't have to worry about any assignments, or obtaining any certifications.
 
I've never really watched any red pill content. Felt like it was pointless since I debated rad fems a few times online. Red pill content to meet seemed like the target audience was mainly for dumb ass niggas.


Sounds like you had a decent amount of free time while in college and high school. Like I said before my social life got way better right after I dropped out of college.

All I focused on was going to work, getting in shape and meeting chicks. I didn't have to worry about any assignments, or obtaining any certifications.

I worked 50-60 hrs a week the summer before I went to college, then after I got kicked out at the end of freshman year until I went back on campus two years later. Even while working those hours, I still commuted by bus to the local community college in downtown Detroit and catching the freight home if I had evening classes.

I still dated.

I had a full load on campus and it was very normal to date during that time. Finals cramming usually meant you and your S.O. in the lounge or in your room cramming together.

You make time if you really want to do it.
 
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