The Lonious Monk
Celestial Souljah
She’s right in the sense that the onus shouldn’t be on her to disclose.
However, I think it’s wrong not to disclose something like that to a potential partner. If a woman disclosed to me she was HIV positive after the fact, I’m not sure I could trust her at all, undetectable or not.
Why shouldn't the onus be on her? She's the one that has firsthand knowledge that she's carrying a deadly disease. Why should be allowed to knowingly expose someone to that disease without telling them?