She WAS the bad guy in this. Did YOU not listen?
SHE destroyed their marriage after 23 years.
SHE was fucking another dude….for eight months.
SHE brought that dude into THEIR HOME, into THEIR BED, most likely.
By the way, NOT ONCE did she come clean about anything…at least, not until they were at the divorce proceedings. SHE planned on taking this to the grave and to never come clean, even after she “broke it off” (but still fucked dude again).
If their kids are 22 and 17, and as he explained, the 17-year-old just got his first taste of infidelity, how does he re-word this situation where there is no villain? I’m sure they’re old enough and smart enough to deduce for themselves and figure that out.