Du let me get this straight ..... if you knew your son was playing the role of Ike Turner going upside his bm head till the woman said fuck it not today nigga you wouldn't support her?..... tbh i need one of the ladies of ABW opinion on this matter.
How well do you expect to know this hypothetical son?
You know what kinda child you have, at least I would. And if I had a son that put his hands on women, I would make it my responsibility to let her know as I would feel it was my responsibility, as this is my child... And some way or another I created this. So yes I would be on his business enough to let any chick he's dealing with heavy to know this is who he is, and to protect herself by leaving him alone
And again, if he met his end by said abuse. I would accept it as a consequence of his actions, but I can't be supportive of anyone who ended my child. Especially if they ignored all signs that he was an abuser. I know women who like that kinda relationship. They actively ignore the danger, they feed off it. I'm not victim blaming, but I do have a bias...I have in the past warned women who chose to stay with abusive men.
And if it was my son, I would 100% tell her to leave him alone. I would 100% try to get him help..I would be very active in the life of my child who I thought was a threat to himself and others.
But what I'm not gonna do is support someone who killed him. Like wtf we doing here? My child could be trying to kill me and someone could save my life by killing them, and I'm still not going to be able to be cool with this person.
I guess my attachment to my children is different. I can accept that they're wrong. And I can accept that they deserved the consequences of their actions. But I would never stand behind their killer
