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Based Dave 96 · Jul 24, 2024

i know this guy who been with his woman(a beautiful chocolate queen) for 7 years........ some months back he told me his woman can't have kids & that she knew it going into the relationship but she didn't want to scare him off.... would my friend be a scumbag to dead the relationship?

TTBF · Jul 24, 2024

No. 7 years is a long time to keep that kind of secret. He wouldn't be wrong for deading it all.

He's entitled to have whatever feelings he has but should probably go through those motions, clear his head and have a conversation with her before ending a 7 year relationship.

loud-ninja · Jul 24, 2024

This is one of those questions where I really cant say what I would do. I dont know.

Chi-Town B · Jul 24, 2024

If having kids is important to him then he should move on to a woman who can have them.

ImaInfluenza · Jul 24, 2024

Does he have a kid?

Rubato · Jul 24, 2024

He really shouldn’t be soliciting outside advice, he is the only one who can assess this accurately based on his own priorities

ImaInfluenza · Jul 24, 2024

Rubato said:
He really shouldn’t be soliciting outside advice, he is the only one who can assess this accurately based on his own priorities

mryounggun · Jul 24, 2024

Rubato said:
He really shouldn’t be soliciting outside advice, he is the only one who can assess this accurately based on his own priorities

What makes you think he is soliciting outside advice?

loud-ninja · Jul 24, 2024

Are they married or just a regular relationship?

7 years is a lot but there are many in a bad relationship for that long as well.

mryounggun · Jul 24, 2024

UNPOPULAR OPINION: ANY reason is a valid reason to leave a relationship.

If I wake up one day and don't like the fact that the second tor on your left foot is longer than your big toe, and decide to leave...that's a valid reason. So the kid thing is definitely a valid reason.

loud-ninja · Jul 24, 2024

mryounggun said:
What makes you think he is soliciting outside advice?

You know what, this is a good question. OP probably put that dude's biz on front street unknowingly. Just like many others.

AZTG · Jul 24, 2024

Islam ftw

Rubato · Jul 24, 2024

mryounggun said:
What makes you think he is soliciting outside advice?

Well I assumed he asked OP, but maybe this is just meant to be a thought exercise

IUTpt2 · Jul 24, 2024

Based Dave 96 · Jul 24, 2024

ImaInfluenza said:
Does he have a kid?

no

Based Dave 96 · Jul 24, 2024

loud-ninja said:
Are they married or just a regular relationship?

7 years is a lot but there are many in a bad relationship for that long as well.

regular relationship.....i'll be honest my friend is crazy about her & vice versa.... this woman works a goverment job, cooks well, ain't looking for a handout, ain't got ridiculous colors & weaves in her hair & she's very well spoken... she's a keeper outside of holding the truth from my friend.

ImaInfluenza · Jul 24, 2024

Based Dave 96 said:
no

Damn, I forgot why I even ask that

already home_17 · Jul 24, 2024

that’s quite the information to withhold
gotta wonder what else is she keeping from him

The Lonious Monk · Jul 24, 2024

Why would he be a scumbag? If he wants kids and she can't give him any, breaking up is reasonable.

Based Dave 96 · Jul 24, 2024

already home_17 said:
that’s quite the information to withhold
gotta wonder what else is she keeping from him

she strikes me as a real solid chick outside of that.... if she got dumped tommorow she would have no problems getting someone else.

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