It is if we're talkin' about abuse but there are many, many instances of 'it happened to me and I'm ok' that are perfectly valid. Exams for example.
As for this situation her dad clearly loves her and provided for her, she mad at him for not bein' perfect it seems.
I think us children should get to a certain age and start to understand that our parents are people and whatever mistakes we think they may have made could just be life shit. Maybe he, wrongly but understandably, thinks him workin' is what's best for her coz he was broke comin' up.
But I don't kno' the details here he cudda been a dick to her or some shit