Do you cosign this behavior?

[Soul_Rattler]

 

[DOS_patos]

this is stupid....

first...why want someone to submit? thats fuck shit and signs he a bitch.
second...what happens when the money get low because life happens?
third....what happens when during this lifestyle...she find a nigga with more money?

after a while...it stops being about money to some people and then its about collection of assets....and who you can take them from or who you can keep them away from.
so while he may think he got ahold of her because he got loot.....a nigga whos on his collection game...can sweep her right from under him.

 

[The Lonious Monk]

Seems kinda weak to me. If you want a chick committed to you, you should be striving to have her committed to you. If she's just committed to your money and the lifestyle your money affords, then she could be gone the next time she runs into someone with more money.

 

[DOS_patos]

i refuse to have a chick financially dependent on me...better get a damn job.

 

[konceptjones]

The problem is that if y'all get married and you have controlled all aspects of her finances for n number of years and y'all end up in a divorce you're DEFINITELY paying alimony. Ain't no way around it either.

As for all that self esteem shit, sounds like some weak nigga shit to me. If you're really doin it like that you never need to list off shit; she already knows 'cause you've been handling business since day one.

If you come into the relationship with malicious intent, like this nigga here is advocating, it can only end badly. Manipulating people is how muhfuckas end up stabbed up, laying on the floor leaking vital fluids, wondering where it all went wrong.

 

[The Lonious Monk]

I like how the dude is acting like he's dropping game as if that's now how Western society operated for centuries.

 

[DOS_patos]

nigga gonna have a crazy wake up call

 

[DMorgan]

Definitely not abuse but the shit lame as hell.

 

[DOS_patos]

Definitely not abuse but the shit lame as hell.

its a kind of financial abuse and emotional and mental abuse

 

[DMorgan]

its a kind of financial abuse and emotional and mental abuse

I can give you the bold but fuck all that financial abuse shit.

 

[DOS_patos]

I can give you the bold but fuck all that financial abuse shit.

dude is controlling the money and using it to control her.
i highly doubt he gave her full access to all his loot.

that nigga on some shit...

 

[Leon'rdo Yung]

Hmmmm....only real gold diggers deserve this because these are the only types that will stand for this type of abuse.Its funny that he saying this like the woman doesn't already know your the financial head honcho, that's the only reason she would be with this type of guy. unless she just super naive.

 

[DOS_patos]

Hmmmm....only real gold diggers deserve this because these are the only types that will stand for this type of abuse.Its funny that he saying this like the woman doesn't already know your the financial head honcho, that's the only reason she would be with this type of guy. unless she just super naive.

the sad part is i know alot of women who would be ok with this as long as they didnt have to work.
i never understood having degrees but dont want to work

 

[1/2]

not a new way of thinking at all...and i see examples of this all the time

even the ones who wont admit it would rather be "on top" financially because it does seem to give some sort of control....a feeling of security for some

there's so many factors and reasons the shit happens in the first place that i couldnt cosign it or bash it

people make their own decisions in life

 

[Rubato]

Have an entirely dependent partner (whether financially or emotionally) is not something anybody should strive to attain, that shit is an unnecessary burden and makes it hard as fuck to leave when you’re ready. Why would anyone want that?

 

[ChicagoFigure]

Waiting for the

"See this is why females become gold diggers" comments

 

[Remy_LeGermz]

I mean if you do that, chances are the life you introduce her to also introduces her to men in that same life. She has a pussy, once she realizes how to use it in that circumstance. What good is "your" money to her?

 

[Leon'rdo Yung]

It is Natural for a woman to want protection or be protected.money is protection.it is their instinct. Hey.....

 

[IP360]

i refuse to have a chick financially dependent on me...better get a damn job.

Quoted for emphasis

 

[DOS_patos]

It is Natural for a woman to want protection or be protected.money is protection.it is their instinct. Hey.....

money is an illusion...
money can not protect people the way they think it can.
its a tool to help but its not final.
now money plus connection or complexion can give you protection
but depending on money alone to protect is a bad choice.