What Are Signs You Look For When Courting?

[Goldie]

What are signs that if you noticed from someone while courting you would stop talking to them?​

 

[ChicagoFigure]

They talk about an ex too much
Theyre in their phone too much
They have mostly bad things to say about family and friends
Gossiping

 

[DOS_patos]

if they talk about themselves to much...and how they talk about themselves.

 

[DOS_patos]

i usually ask a bunch of indirect, open ended questions.....

how the person answers them tells me alot about how they think.

 

[OhMars]

if they talk about themselves to much...and how they talk about themselves.

This, If i ask a question and it turns into a 5 min monologue about them and they never ask me anything about me. Thats a no go.

 

[Goldie]

lol i know a few people like that ^^^

 

[SeaSnake]

If she say anything like "i dont have female friends because its too much drama" i know then she the dramatic one.

 

[ChicagoFigure]

Wack sense of humor is a no go for me too

 

[DOS_patos]

if she telling me how she beat a bitch ass in walmart last week but she getting better......

she gotta go.

the shit reeks of sliced tires and bussed out windows at ya mama house

 

[DOS_patos]

if she says her mother always watches her kids so she can go to the club on wednesday nights....she needs to be cut

 

[DOS_patos]

if i tell her i know a chick who slept with 5 guys in one week and shes a hoe.....if she defends said chick.

cut her off

 

[DOS_patos]

if she says she can cook but puts sugar in tunafish and in greens....

cut her off

 

[DOS_patos]

if she had to miss rent to pay for a pair of red bottoms to stunt at a party for the bitch she beat up in walmart


cut her off

 

[DOS_patos]

if she out with you but still say it aint no good black men...

cut her off

 

[DOS_patos]

if shes a RN or corrections officer

cut her off


cause she stripped in the past.
they all go together

 

[Judy Winslow]

Thought we had a thread like this but my number one would be lack of communication and being boring af.

I’m out the door. Quick fast.

 

[1/2]

starting off w/ dont likes and wont do's

gossiping about family/friends/coworkers

any hints of drama or clingyness

 

[IP360]

Well damn...Dos went in. Lol.

Conversation. If they can't hold a convo, it was a no go for me.

 

[Ironman]

If I'm the one leading the convo most of the time. Taking herself too serious and not having a sense of humor. Close minded and unable to talk about a diverse range of topics or even interested in trying to talk about other things. If she's hitting one word responses

 

[Golden]

if shes a RN or corrections officer

cut her off


cause she stripped in the past.
they all go together

RN as in registered nurse?