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Men, does being faithful get easier over time?

I suppose that would vary on the individual. The older people get the more they become aware of what they may or may not want to be with in a relationship. Others realize they just like being single and having options or just prefer being alone. You may have a better understanding and I suppose it's easier to decide to be faithful or not. Of course you have some people who are just pure dirtbags regardless of the situation in my opinion lol.
 
For some ....we needed a reason to be. Must dudes don’t want to mess up a good thing.

hold us down, ya got nothing to worry about

Some dudes are just greedy and won’t stop til the plumbing don’t work.

some like the homie said.....not worth the headache any more.

and like the other homie said, ya upbringing means a lot.
 
Yea. Easier now that im older.

As a youngin, new pussy was worth fucking the relationship up over.

Now though? Peace of mind and a steady relationship >>> new pussy.

At times I feel like I could relapse though.

This. The older you get, the more most niggas value peace of mind and a predictable life over new pussy. Like only 49% of me not cheating has anything to do with my s/o. 51% of that shit has to do with the fact that I have no interest in dedicating energy to tryna hide calls and texts, changing names in phones, making up excuses to be away and unavailable, potentially having years of conflict and the rebuilding of trust.

Older niggas value a good woman and the simplicity of their lives over new pussy.
 
It’s easy to be faithful as the person is also easy to love, but the temptation come in when they become more difficult to work with love and all that
 
If you love the person you are with, like adore them as a person. There’s not a vagina in the world that would lead you to opening them up to the pain that it would cause them to find out that you cheated. But… that’s if you love them. If you don’t adore and love them..right time, right situation..might dive into something right quick
 
If you love the person you are with, like adore them as a person. There’s not a vagina in the world that would lead you to opening them up to the pain that it would cause them to find out that you cheated. But… that’s if you love them. If you don’t adore and love them..right time, right situation..might dive into something right quick
I dont think I'd want a man who used me as his reason not to cheat.
 
Only easier when they just lost the energy...will...interest to go thru that whole process of lookin for someone to cheat wit. Lol
 
You saying you want him to not cheat only off the strength of personal choice?

I’m a bit of a dreamer myself
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I wouldn't want a nigga who cheated on everybody til he got to me. There's worse things you can do in a relationship than cheat so I don't really put a lot of stock in that anyway. At this point in my life, I require a level of self sufficiency that I didn't before. You gotta have a handle on yourself without me.
 
I wouldn't want a nigga who cheated on everybody til he got to me. There's worse things you can do in a relationship than cheat so I don't really put a lot of stock in that anyway. At this point in my life, I require a level of self sufficiency that I didn't before. You gotta have a handle on yourself without me.
Oh well, yea, in that context I can see how the notion of using you as a stop gap would be disheartening and I understand your viewpoint on it. I was speaking on it in a different context like..it’s an additional motivation that assists in keeping you from taking that leap. Feel like..if it is the way you viewed it, dude would end up being resentful of the fact that he don’t cheat just cause of you. So I get chu
 
woman are attracted to a good father/husband.....

so it balances out

i feel like i get more attention for that now than i did earlier....so i would guess it's harder now... but i'm aware of the signs so it's easier to avoid and swerve....
 
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